In Sweet Company

In Sweet Company

United We Stand

“To me, spirituality is ultimately about seeing our Source — no matter what we each call It — as the same. It also involves acting on our responsibility to help others, especially those who are less fortunate. We must each do something to improve the world, even if it’s only that we pick up a piece of paper on the street.” — Zainab Salbi, IN SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE

On July 2, 2010, after 15+ years of proposing, petitioning, and planning, the United Nations General Assembly merged four of its existing organizations to create UN Women, the United Nations Entity for Gender Equality and the Empowerment of Women. UN Women will work to: eliminate discrimination against women and girls; empower women socially, economically, and politically; and give women equal voice in peace and security issues. Human rights, education, health care, eliminating poverty and violence against women and girls are a priority.  (


In 2002, I traveled to Geneva as a delegate of The Global Peace Initiative of Women, a gathering sponsored, in part, by the UN, that brought women religious and spiritual leaders from 70 countries together to explore how women could actively influence the peace process. ( It was the first time in the history of the world women gathered with this intent. Being with these women — hearing their stories, looking into their eyes — moved me beyond description. I had a personal experience of global sisterhood.
About the same time I was in Geneva,

researchers at UCLA were conducting groundbreaking research into the friendships of women. Besides the social and emotional benefits they provide, scientists discovered womens’ friendships actually help us counteract stress. Previous research — limited only to male subjects — concluded that stress triggers a cascade of the male hormone testosterone and causes a “fight or flight response.” The UCLA study demonstrated women respond to stress differently then men; we release the hormone oxytocin which buffers the “fight or flight” response and encourages us to “tend and befriend.” Once the “tend and befriend response” is in play, additional oxytocin is released that produces a prolonged calming effect. Additional studies confirm that social ties reduce the risk of disease by lowering blood pressure, heart rate, and cholesterol. In other words, our friends help us live.


Like me, you may not being a religious leader, a policy advocate, or nonprofit entity;  you may not be a woman of means, a woman of position or influence or fame who can use her gifts to call attention to the suffering many of our global sisters endure. But you can help further the efforts of the impassioned women who are making waves by creating meaningful friendships with good women, and with women in need.
The following organizations offer programs that connect women like us to other women. Check them out. Open your heart. Tend and befriend. Help us all to live better lives. – 5th United Nations International Conference on Women – Omega Institute, Women and Power Conference

Advertisement – Gather the Women Global Matrix  – Jean Shinoda Bolen’s work  – Peace activities around the world – Riane Eisler’s Spiritual Alliance to Stop Intimate Violence  – Zainab Salbi’s Women for Women International

Your thoughts?

Comments read comments(1)
post a comment

posted August 26, 2010 at 1:47 am

There is a Shift taking place in the conversion of controlling mechanisms, the underpinnings of “the way things work,” from the predominantly masculine way (the ethic of competition) it has been, to feminine … not predominant, simply more prevalent: approaching the ideal: balance. It is a shift from predominance of fear-based thinking and motivation (“… or else” type thinking) to Love-based, nurturing.
So Hooray! to the Feminine. And, for that matter Hooray! to the masculine. Nothing wrong with the masculine … but in its proper balance, proper mix in the blend of vibrational qualities and tendencies. It is the nature of the masculine to dominate and, unchecked, you get the “mess” we’re in today. Were the feminine to similarly dominate (though that is not its nature) there would be a different mess. It’s the blend, the proper blend, that works.
We are finally truly emerging from a dark age, a time in which survival alone was the key issue and dominance the surest way to ensure it. Now we are living in an age of emerging Light when the issues of life become more “mature”, endemic of a more mature—spiritually mature—race whose purpose and focus shifts from mere survival to enrichment of experience, expansion of consciousness and awareness such that we see the Connection amongst/of All—all life, all creation—and in seeing that connection, the reflection of identity, we are able, for the first time in aeons, to truly live in Love.
From the “Known and Knowable” writings of The Folk of Yore

report abuse

Post a Comment

By submitting these comments, I agree to the terms of service, rules of conduct and privacy policy (the "agreements"). I understand and agree that any content I post is licensed to and may be used by in accordance with the agreements.

Previous Posts

In Sweet Company
Writing to an invisible audience, sweeping your heart out into a boundless Universe not knowing who is listening to it beat or whether the thump will be embraced or cast aside, is a courageous act. Fortunately for me, at some point during the ...

posted 11:49:59am Aug. 29, 2012 | read full post »

More Blogs To Enjoy!!!
Thank you for visiting In Sweet Company. This blog is no longer being updated. Please enjoy the archives. Here are some other blogs you may also enjoy: Red Letters with Tom Davis Recent prayer post on Prayables Most Recent Inspiration ...

posted 2:07:03pm Aug. 02, 2012 | read full post »

Hardwired for Compassion
... we grow in our understanding of God as we come to understand our own stories more fully. -- Rabbi Laura Geller, IN SWEET COMPANY: CONVERSATIONS WITH EXTRAORDINARY WOMEN ABOUT LIVING A SPIRITUAL LIFE Recently a small group of kindred ...

posted 11:50:47am Jun. 27, 2012 | read full post »

Daddy's Girl
“... for me, spiritual practice is making the bed, defrosting dinner, and so on. It’s not magical or removed; it’s about how I discover and reveal myself as I do things that are ordinary.” -- Miriam Polster, IN SWEET COMPANY: ...

posted 5:35:03pm Jun. 06, 2012 | read full post »

Courting the Divine Mother
“Getting in touch with [this feminine, receptive side of our nature] can be a life-transforming experience because what we’re really talking about when we talk about receptivity is how we can be open to growing and evolving into more ...

posted 12:03:32pm May. 09, 2012 | read full post »


Report as Inappropriate

You are reporting this content because it violates the Terms of Service.

All reported content is logged for investigation.