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Homeshuling’s Top 10 Jewish Rituals Your Family Will Love

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I’m on vacation until August 1, and will be back with all new material. Until then, here’s a favorite from last summer.

New Year’s is a time for resolutions – do more yoga, eat fewer sweets, spend less time on facebook…..sometimes we follow through; more often we can’t, or don’t. Fortunately, those of use who celebrate Rosh Hashanah, the Jewish New Year, have a second opportunity to reflect on our lives. The High Holidays are a time to reorient, to see where we’ve “missed the mark” and figure out how we want to get back on track.

Even as someone who actually gets paid for Jewish parenting (well, sort of), I know that I have not succeeded in engaging my kids in Jewish life as much as I would like. This past year, I’ve often lost sight of the very essence of my blog (it is called HOMEshuling, after all) and tried dragging taking my children to shul more often and for longer than we could manage. Why does shul work for some families, but not ours? Because in the end, I don’t really like going to shul. And while that’s probably something I should work on for myself, my goal for the year 5771 is to focus my energy on Jewish things I love, or think I would love, doing. Move over “you’re doing this because I had to” and “you’re doing this because I think you should.” Welcome “we’re doing this because I really, really want to.”

Care to join me? Here’s my list of top ten authentic, traditional Jewish practices that are truly fun for kids and families. Some of them we already do, and some are on my personal list to try for next year.

1. Blow a shofar. Let your kids blow the shofar.

It’s a tradition to hear the shofar every day, except Shabbat, during Elul, the month before Rosh Hashanah. Besides waking my kids up with the shofar every morning (which they don’t love so much) I leave the shofar out all month where they can play and give it their best blow. Over and over again. You can find a small ram’s horn shofar for under $25 on line – trust me, you don’t want a plastic one, unless you really like the sound of vuvuzelas.

2. Do Tashlich at a beach or river

While casting one’s sins away on Rosh Hashanah is not a terribly accessible concept for young children, tossing bread into moving water surely is. It’s a reminder to seek out somewhere really beautiful on the day that celebrates the creation of the Earth. Here’s an article about some wonderfully creative tashlich experiences. Any local readers want to help organize a family gathering at Musante Beach?

3. Build and decorate a sukkah

The hardest part about building a sukkah is doing it for the first time. We bought a kit to get us going from these folks. We make the walls out of white sheets and every year invite friends over to paint new murals on them. We haven’t spent the whole night in our sukkah yet, but we’ve had a lot of fun trying.

I’ve also written about our sukkah here and here.

 4. Make and deliver Mishloach Manot

How often do you take the opportunity to show up at someone’s door and surprise them with a gift of food? Not only do we enjoy the baking of treats for our Purim baskets, but we spend a day making a decorating handmade containers out of recycled materials.

Read more about our mishoach manot here, here and here. You’ll want to bookmark my mom’s hamentashen recipe – trust me.

5. Search for chametz and burn it the next morning

On the night before Passover, my husband has the job of hiding 10 hunks of bread. We dim the lights, grab a candle lantern and a feather, and play a game of “hot and cold” trying to discover his sneakier-than-last-year hiding spots. This activity is not complete until you set the chametz (leavened bread) a flame the next morning. We usually do it in the grill, but if there were a community fire, we’d surely go there.

6. Hold, or attend, a Lag B’Omer campfire

Don’t forget the marshmallows. Enough said?

7. Sing and dance on Tu B’Av

Tu, or the 15th day of, Av is a not-very-well-known holiday of love. In ancient times unmarried Jewish women dressed in white and danced in the vineyards. This year, I had promised my daughters we would take a guitar down to the beach and sing and dance, but it was still 95 degrees at bedtime, and we never made it. Next year, God wiling.

 8. Jump up at the Moon

Did you know that there it is a mitzvah to go outside and leap towards the new moon? Really. I can’t believe I’ve never done this with my children before. Here’s a great article about Kiddush Levanah.

 9. Bless your children at Shabbat dinner

This doesn’t quite count as fun, but it’s a ritual my daughters look forward to every week. On Friday night, I whisper a traditional blessing in each of my daughter’s ears, and then my husband and I share aloud a special memory of each child from the past week. We might say “I was really proud of how hard you worked at your swim lesson this week,” or “I loved reading in bed with you this morning.” Sometimes the girls even ask to bless us.

 10. Cuddle and sing the bedtime shma

My kids love their nighttime cuddles. Why I haven’t been able to incorporate saying the shma into that ritual is a mystery to me. Maybe next year……

I’m not suggesting that our Judaism should be comprised only of things that are fun. But if you are looking for somewhere to start, or a next step, as I am, why not at least start there? And if you have your own favorites to share, please add them below.



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posted July 31, 2011 at 8:32 am


“Hashem, bless all my friends and family in what ever it is that You know they may be needing this day! May their lives be full of Your peace, prosperity and power as they seek to have a closer relationship with You. Amen.”



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