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What if you feel you’ve dropped into the depths of darkness and the void of despair? If you are in a tunnel, help is at hand. It’s called “the light.”

I know how the tunnel fills us with a darkness so deep, we are left breathless, hopeless and lost in our suffering. It can certainly feel like a black hole of hopelessness.

When you’re inside that tunnel and the darkness is all you can see and feel, it’s difficult to imagine there may be hope. The darkness can suck all the life out of you, and take you further than feeling lost, desolate, disconsolate – sadly some are nipped or engulfed by thoughts of suicide.
The tunnel is the feeling of falling. The darkness is falling into oblivion. When you’re in the tunnel, you can’t see any light.
If you’re there, take time out, be patient, and seek help wherever you can find it. Suffering alone makes the whole experience of despair deeper. There is help available, and there are those who do understand.

The light at the end of the tunnel is no illusion; the tunnel is. The tunnel is the illusion of separation, the illusion of being alone, the illusion of being lost.

“We are all on the same path… Our separation from each other is an illusion of consciousness.” ~ Albert Einsteinmidrash

There are choices to be made about whether to focus on the tunnel, or take positive active steps to shift into the light. There is no judgment in the tunnel of despair. How can one judge another’s suffering?

I believe we do have power to overcome suffering, although it may not always disappear. Until one reaches one’s last breath, there will still be a new sunrise on the horizon, a new day, a new breath, something to look forward to. Life is an imperfect experience, a journey that, for everyone, contains light and dark aspects. Suffering is part of growth. Goethe said, “the point of life is life.”

As the Midrash teaches, “Had I not fallen, I would not have arisen. Had I not been subject to darkness, I could not have seen the light.” Remember – you are not alone – never were. We are together in this human incarnation experience. Breathe deeply my love.

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
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David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

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https://i.ytimg.com/vi/8txvXDXk6uA/maxresdefault.jpg2018 is upon us. How was the holiday season? Did you make it through unscathed?

These times can be confronting. We may even feel we’ve dropped into the depths of darkness or the void of despair.

When you’re inside that black hole and the darkness is all you can see and feel, it’s difficult to imagine there may be hope.

There is hope. Please hang in there.

Take time out, be patient, and seek help wherever you can find it. Suffering alone makes the whole experience of despair deeper. There is help available, and there are those who do understand.

The light at the end of the tunnel is no illusion; the tunnel is. The tunnel is the illusion of separation, the illusion of being alone, the illusion of being lost.

“We are all on the same path… Our separation from each other is an illusion of consciousness.” ~ Albert Einstein

Life is an imperfect experience, a journey that, for everyone, contains light and dark aspects. Suffering is part of growth. Goethe said, “the point of life is life.”

Why stay positive?

Why keep the faith?

There is a helpful Proverb that leads the way into the light, “Just when the caterpillar thought the world was ending, he turned into a butterfly.

The way shower is that when we doubt the most, when the journey gets the hardest, that’s when we learn the most. That’s where our breakthroughs lie – on the other side of our comfort zone. Don’t give up now!

You’ve come way too far!

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
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You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!

David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

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Cycles exist outside of us, and within us, too. We are part of these cycles, yet long after we have ceased to exist on this Earth plane, they will continue.

We all have our struggles, and nobody is truly alone in their struggle to stay alive, an ultimately futile battle.

I, personally, am a “believer” in a Higher Force, a unified field of consciousness, Love, and all things intelligent.

Religions are useful, yet misleading too. They all contain truths amongst the misconceptions and confusing paradoxes.

On some level, all souls exist and will continue to exist as energy is transmuted, it never dies.

A little difference it can make to help an ant, or to move a grain of sand. In some dimension, even if in a small way, you thusly create harmony, and raise beauty. It is helping the universe know itself and unfolding to perfect itself.

 

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
_________________________________________________
You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!

David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

Follow me on Facebook: davidstarlyte

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Christmas Portrait People Happy Family Holiday

Christmas is nearly upon us. The holiday season is often a time of unexpected conflict, strife and agitation. What should be a time of joy, peace, sharing amongst family and friend, can easily descend into derision. Old jealousies surface, and it can seem that the energies are heightened, partly because people have more time to pay attention, and not run away.

This is an opportunity presented to heal old wounds and also stay centered amongst the chaos.

It’s important to face the “elephant in the room” – rather than attempting to avoid conflict, speak your heart. It is common that people find something they never wanted to speak about, yet bothered them incessantly. Rather than suppress these topics, face them head-on at the start.

Introduce a topic calmly, with poise and respect. For instance, “I want to talk about the kids’ choice of education. I know it’s something that has concerned you in the past. Let’s discuss this with calm and a willingness to seek the best solutions.”

Languaging is creative, as in how you speak, and which words you use. The tone, content and body-language are all essential elements of the messages conveyed.

The following are helpful suggestions and hints to help you navigate through those difficult conversations and interactions:

How to Create Peace if Your Family Fights During the Holidays:

  1. Maintain perfect inner calm and equanimity by first taking 3 deep breaths before any interaction. Breathe in the scenario you wish to create and on your out-breath, feel it crystallise into reality. For instance, “I want to feel good. I want loving relationships and have fun together.” This breath is very powerful into the Dan tien center (+_ 3 inches below the navel). Jump through the illusion, via the breath.
  2. When you enter a family setting, there may be agitation and disjointed or chaotic energy around you. Keep your calm no matter what is happening outside of you. Don’t let the energy affect you.
  3. Focus your attention on positive light. See the goodness in others.
  4. Often forgiveness is necessary, for us to let go of the bad energy, and move on. If you are holding a resentment towards family members, look towards them, say inside “I forgive you,” and keep sending them love.
  5. When you feel yourself entering into the story or drama of the situation/s, or becoming connected to the mindset of a loved one, disconnect from the energy. Walk outside, separate your energy (individuate) and own your sovereignty. Repeat three times: “I am that, I am.”Remember: Self-mastery is accelerating your vibration DESPITE what happens around you.
  6. Master the internal before mastery can be achieved on the external. If the external becomes messy, look within. Dialogue with yourself via journaling. Make notes about your experiences and monitor any changes your experience. Were there any specific triggers you noticed?
  7. You are the creator of the story. Make the inner-verse central to what is going on. The external patterns play a loop-pattern that will just keep repeating and repeating. You are not a victim, Take responsibility. Make your reality.

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The secret practice to blast away any negativity:

With the breath, hold on to your abdomen and let the light of fire burn through any negativity, breathing in and out. Anger will disappear if you replace it with a deep breath of gratitude.


Now you have all the tools for transformation, and you can go ahead and have the best holiday season ever with your family. If you do falter and have a little niggle, that’s normal and OKAY. Please don’t let it detract from having the most wonderful festive season ever!!!!

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
_________________________________________________
You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!

David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

Follow me on Facebook: davidstarlyte

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