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summer_flowers_insects_cub_i_am_happy_to_harmony_backlight-1099552.jpg!dBeloved.

Cycles exist outside of us, and within us, too. We are part of these cycles, yet long after we have ceased to exist on this Earth plane, they will continue.

We all have our struggles, and nobody is truly alone in their struggle to stay alive, an ultimately futile battle.

I, personally, am a “believer” in a Higher Force, a unified field of consciousness, Love, and all things intelligent.

Religions are useful, yet misleading too. They all contain truths amongst the misconceptions and confusing paradoxes.

On some level, all souls exist and will continue to exist as energy is transmuted, it never dies.

A little difference it can make to help an ant, or to move a grain of sand. In some dimension, even if in a small way, you thusly create harmony, and raise beauty. It is helping the universe know itself and unfolding to perfect itself.

 

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
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You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
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David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

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Christmas Portrait People Happy Family Holiday

Christmas is nearly upon us. The holiday season is often a time of unexpected conflict, strife and agitation. What should be a time of joy, peace, sharing amongst family and friend, can easily descend into derision. Old jealousies surface, and it can seem that the energies are heightened, partly because people have more time to pay attention, and not run away.

This is an opportunity presented to heal old wounds and also stay centered amongst the chaos.

It’s important to face the “elephant in the room” – rather than attempting to avoid conflict, speak your heart. It is common that people find something they never wanted to speak about, yet bothered them incessantly. Rather than suppress these topics, face them head-on at the start.

Introduce a topic calmly, with poise and respect. For instance, “I want to talk about the kids’ choice of education. I know it’s something that has concerned you in the past. Let’s discuss this with calm and a willingness to seek the best solutions.”

Languaging is creative, as in how you speak, and which words you use. The tone, content and body-language are all essential elements of the messages conveyed.

The following are helpful suggestions and hints to help you navigate through those difficult conversations and interactions:

How to Create Peace if Your Family Fights During the Holidays:

  1. Maintain perfect inner calm and equanimity by first taking 3 deep breaths before any interaction. Breathe in the scenario you wish to create and on your out-breath, feel it crystallise into reality. For instance, “I want to feel good. I want loving relationships and have fun together.” This breath is very powerful into the Dan tien center (+_ 3 inches below the navel). Jump through the illusion, via the breath.
  2. When you enter a family setting, there may be agitation and disjointed or chaotic energy around you. Keep your calm no matter what is happening outside of you. Don’t let the energy affect you.
  3. Focus your attention on positive light. See the goodness in others.
  4. Often forgiveness is necessary, for us to let go of the bad energy, and move on. If you are holding a resentment towards family members, look towards them, say inside “I forgive you,” and keep sending them love.
  5. When you feel yourself entering into the story or drama of the situation/s, or becoming connected to the mindset of a loved one, disconnect from the energy. Walk outside, separate your energy (individuate) and own your sovereignty. Repeat three times: “I am that, I am.”Remember: Self-mastery is accelerating your vibration DESPITE what happens around you.
  6. Master the internal before mastery can be achieved on the external. If the external becomes messy, look within. Dialogue with yourself via journaling. Make notes about your experiences and monitor any changes your experience. Were there any specific triggers you noticed?
  7. You are the creator of the story. Make the inner-verse central to what is going on. The external patterns play a loop-pattern that will just keep repeating and repeating. You are not a victim, Take responsibility. Make your reality.

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The secret practice to blast away any negativity:

With the breath, hold on to your abdomen and let the light of fire burn through any negativity, breathing in and out. Anger will disappear if you replace it with a deep breath of gratitude.


Now you have all the tools for transformation, and you can go ahead and have the best holiday season ever with your family. If you do falter and have a little niggle, that’s normal and OKAY. Please don’t let it detract from having the most wonderful festive season ever!!!!

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
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You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!

David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

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via PinterestWe’ve journeyed here across the universe, further than the mind can imagine, undergone a multiple metamorphosis from light beings into the three-dimensional structures we inhabit today.

It’s quite a revolutionary transition. No wonder it takes brave souls, old souls, to embark on such a journey. Here we are now, in planet Earth, a planet undergoing so many mysterious and exciting shifts.

Whilst we cannot see the entire perspective of our current creation, existence is not accidental. Nothing occurs by accident. Feeling is how we can perceive and understand. If we try with our intellect, we will draw blanks. It’s like trying to remember past-lives; it’s a product of the emotional-side of our brain. We can get impressions, feelings, images, yet difficult to exact facts and figures. That is really because the nature of our body came from our conception via male and female components, and our body comes from this planet.

It is our soul that remembers. Our soul is that infinite and immortal part of us that comes from the stars.

The concept of the universe we live in and its “open” structure is important to understand. We have the ability as humans to create with our minds and then in 3-D reality. In fact, everything you see around you started in consciousness, whether from the consciousness of creator Gods, or human beings.

Whatever you see around you, is yours. Embrace it. It is a key to shapeshifting consciousness to be able to accept and transmute all that is your reality. As co-creators of our “reality” – what is real to us – we can change and play with the movie of our lives. We are the Director, not the victim.

As a human being, most of us experience experience life as unfair and feel victimised at least sometimes. This is why it’s so important to:

  1. Own your power as a co-creator of your reality.
  2. Accept the process by taking a step back. There is a deeper perspective, so let it rest without getting too involved with the heated emotion of the moment.
  3. Take responsibility for all of your creations. They wouldn’t be there if not for your learning.
  4. Align the judgement/s.
  5. Embrace all creations and creators.

The first is key – to take back your power. It is a basic element of self-autonomy, to accept that the only true power in your life comes from within, not from some external source outside of you. As an autonomous being, nothing occurs outside of your creation. All that presents is choice: YOUR CHOICE.

The complications, dramas and stories around us from friends, to co-workers, media, entertainment (etc.) are none of our business. We may think we have to or need to get involved. We could choose to get involved, and that is a choice to own.

If you examine your inner life, you’ll discover something interesting. The deepest core of yourself is occupied by love and fear. Far beneath all the other layers. Love and fear are both energies that offer a polarity, and therefore people often get stuck in their inner processes without taking actions that align to their true calling (which is love).

Today, just for today, move outside of judgements, and follow the love, follow your love. That is your ultimate calling…

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You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.
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You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!

David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com

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Suffering…

It’s a human trait to go through challenges that bring about suffering. I wonder if it’s even possible to go through life and avoid at least some form of suffering, mental, emotional, physical or spiritual.

It is not always suffering that defeats people – it is more the attitude to suffering that is cultivated – that matters most.

When the source of suffering is a deep-rooted sub-conscious message in the psyche that says, “I am not good enough,” then there are potential pitfalls and definitely aspects of self-denial that could suppress progress.

One of the deepest and most intractable fears, “I’m not good enough,” gets expressed in multiple ways, often hidden and is the source of so much of our suffering.

If only we could see this root clearly, and address it, life would become much more effortless. In fact, the way into an effortless life, is to speak into the inner child part of ourselves and love it unconditionally. The antidote to our fear, is love.

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A lie is conditioned from an early age. It’s a part of society’s message that we if we get an education, we will be able to get a job. When we graduate, get a job, and pay our taxes, then we’re able to live the good life. Next comes marriage. Life is really good here, making a family…
Tick the boxes and everything will be OK!

Conformity will be rewarded with abundance and happiness.

Now, we know the reality hasn’t quite lived up to this expectation, especially since the fall of the middle class (and the reign of the super-rich elite). Did this start in the Reagan era?

It doesn’t matter, when it started, however, the point is that, the reality we are living in is (thank God) not cookie-cutter style any more. It’s self-expression, digital revolution, and plenty of uncertainty!

As we go into this increasingly messy reality of change, we can be transformational catalysts (awareness-boosters), or we can stay asleep, blind and re-living the pre-programmed fears like Groundhog Day.

It’s important to keep addressing our deepest fears and core woundings.

Why am I suffering? Or what is behind my suffering?

What is the source of my pain?

What do I really want to express?

What would LOVE say if it had a voice?

Is this the voice of love or fear?

Is my need for control because I feel out of control, or deep down want to maintain “control” because I don’t feel good enough?

Does nothing make me feel good enough, even if I get the best job, best lover, best (fill the gap) something in the world? Is there still a void – or feeling of emptiness inside?

Am I really jealous or just believe that I’m not good enough to receive the same gifts I resent seeing in another person?

This feeling inside is making me uncomfortable – if I ask myself – “what is behind this feeling” – what message do I intuitively get?

Behind my sadness, is…?

To end off my message on a positive note, let’s meditate on joy.

Why are you good enough?

Eckhart Tolle wrote: “You are the universe…Expressing itself as human for a while…”

So if you are the universe, how can you be anything other than a wonderfully cosmic co-creation of matter, spirit, consciousness and dreams? If you are the universe (and you definitely are your own universe), then why is it a problem if you’re different (unique) compared to others?

Once you know you are the universe, you realise that you are enough, and always were enough, and always will be enough. Do you need anyone else to tell you “you’re OK” – other than your own approval?

The universe has various qualities known in the Vedic (Indian scriptures), including the following, Sat Nam: LOVE, KNOWINGNESS, BLISS.

These are the inherent qualities of the universe inside.

Own these qualities, becoming aware that you are an expression of love, knowingness and bliss.

As a universe, you don’t need to be small, to think small, to be jealous of other universes, or even to feel sad.

Write this on your forehead, when you feel fear/doubt or a nagging negativity about yourself – I am the universe expressing itself as human.

You are a creation of God.

This is why you really are good enough.

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What do you think – or feel? Feel free to comment down below!
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David Starlyte (ND) – Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach, Speaker and Ascension-Guide.

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