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Why Radical Forgiveness?

posted by David G Arenson ND

Forgive-640x425Why does it seem we still have so much conflict and derision in the world – and is there a different way to approach this?

Is there a root of our collective dysfunction as individuals and as a collective society? As Henry Thoreau observed about the folly of not going directly to the source, however uncomfortable it may be, “There are a thousand hacking at the branches of evil to one who is striking at the root.”

It seems that in today’s world, selfishness, lust for power, hatred, violence and other unwanted dramas are still very much at play. The despair and separation seems to be reaching saturation point. It is an invitation to consider what historian Charles Beard said when asked what he had learnt from history, “when it is dark enough, you can see the stars.”

If now is the darkness before the dawn, what is the most powerful act we can do as individuals and as humanity to sweep away the conflicts of history? Where is the glimpse of light striving to shine forth?

There is never a time when peace can be resolved with hatred. If the past taught us anything, it is that conflict stimulates more conflict. So, too, forgiveness stimulates more forgiveness.

We stand at a threshold of spiritual opportunity that can take us into the stratosphere of our radiance. When you liberate yourself, you automatically liberate others. Choosing goodness crosses the barrier of ego limitation, and invites others to walk with us, as our light is shared amongst others.
Radical forgiveness is a broader gift – an act of grace and service to humanity. It’s a process of final resolution, release and healing.

Radical forgiveness is not sensible, rational, logical or “right” – it’s an invitation to open the heart to acting completely and unconditionally loving without a selfish motivation. Not that one doesn’t get something out of forgiving. Forgiveness is an act of self-love – it gives a double gift, rewarding both the giver and the receiver. That’s why forgiving and letting go is the most powerful choice one can make for oneself and for humanity.

Practising radical forgiveness is allowing and accepting all that is happening in our world. It releases one to be present without trying to control others and the quality of our experience. Taking the “letting go” pill activates a deep surrendering. In this space of surrender, we glimpse a greater part of reality and who we are – that which is unconditional freedom. With understanding, comes compassion. With compassion, comes forgiveness. Radical forgiveness liberates all to be allowed.

Forgiveness liberates us from suffering over the past and inspires us to be present. In The Power of Now, Eckhart Tolle argues that only by stepping into the “power of the Now,” can there be real forgiveness. This point of now is where all true power exists rendering forgiveness actually unnecessary. “This renders the past powerless, and you realize deeply that nothing you ever did or that was ever done to you could touch even in the slightest the radiant essence of who you are.”

The ocean is made up of single cells containing the intelligence of the whole body. As within each droplet of water is the ocean, so within each person is the intelligence of the whole of humanity. To see any single person as separate from the whole, is to misunderstand our connection, our inseparability.

Once we can begin to glimpse our vastness, and start to embrace our expansive potential, we can start to open the closed windows of our minds. By allowing our humanity to embrace our universality, we can liberate limitation from our spirits, and invite in endless cosmic possibilities. As Jack Kornfield wrote, “Within each of us is a secret longing to remember the light, to step out in time in this dancing world. It’s where we began and where we return.”

The cosmic joke is that the very external world we judge so harshly, only reflects our internal world. What is seen in others is a projection that emanates from within. This mirror shows us who we are, it reveals exactly what is happening inside. There is no escaping from the self – one always suffers the consequences of what is occurring in one’s internal world. One who is able to accept and forgive himself (or herself) is also able to accept and forgive others.

Holding grudges and negative feelings towards is an act of self-harm. We become victims of our own suffering, not victims of the person who supposedly harmed us. We do most harm to ourselves not by what others did to us, but how we respond to it. What we resist will persist until we embrace acceptance, allowance and non-judgment. Forgiveness releases and clears our internal experience, and we can use this open space to live a life of freedom. Radical forgiveness frees us from being held hostage by blame, shame and guilt. It opens up the gateway to release negativity, and instead replace these qualities in our self with positive feelings.

Isaac Newton’s action-reaction physics principle can be applied in a different way to our actions lead to consequences. In this way, we create our reality via our perspective, beliefs and thoughts. By the universal law of inviting in that which is feared, invalidating so-called evil and evil-doers empowers those committing atrocities.

Why radical forgiveness?

“Radical” is not playing small by keeping things as they are – it requires a revolution. It is a plea to end all wars, a request to forgive the rapist, the murderer, the terrorist, the abuser, the homophobe, the racist once and for all. Radical is a statement of “NO MORE” – we draw the line in the sane on all past abuses – our pain and suffering ends here.

Now is the time to radiate our potential as evolving human beings and humanity. Radical forgiveness lets go and releases what is past to the annals of the past. It invites in our own true nature.

There is no loss in venturing forth with one’s heart open as a messenger of hope, a ray of light. Here is an invitation, to lead the way by practicing radical forgiveness. As Jane Goodall said, “You cannot get through a single day without having an impact on the world around you. What you do makes a difference and you have to decide what kind of difference you want to make.”

Do you hear the call?


PRACTICE:

Regarding people in the present or past, alive or dead;
Regarding issues, conflicts between nations, tribes, century-long vendettas, political matters, cultural and religious differences:

If you are holding a grudge, grievance, or feeling forces of resentment, jealousy, bitterness, anger, hatred, disgust, or any other feelings of rancor, rejection, pain and suffering, or incompletion, find a place in yourself to dedicate a time to meditate.

Within your meditation practice, consciously let go of the cords of attachment holding you to this situation of ill feeling. Consciously let it go energetically with your focus. Bring love to the space created within.

Now, feel love and forgiveness expand outwards from your heart chakra.

When you feel you have achieved this, and created a new positive feeling within, send love and forgiveness to the person or people involved.


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2015 – The Year of Living Fearlessly

posted by David G Arenson ND


jane goodall“When you liberate yourself, you automatically liberate others.” 
~ David Starlight

What latent forces lie dormant within the human psyche and will 2015 see a portal being opened into LIMITLESS being, into living and embodying LOVE?

As 2014 ebbs away, it’s time to invite and welcome in the new energies of 2015. 

As we invite in these new AQUARIAN ENERGIES, I would like to share some key insights about the energies we have been experiencing.

2014 has been tricky with much collective trauma and grief exposed.

“Your past is just a story, and once you realize this, it has no power over you.” ~ Chuck Palahniuk

2015

We have seen continued media control, apathy and continued violence in the world – it’s been a cosmic scenario of “the darkest hour is before the dawn.” 

In many ways, after the depths of darkness and hopelessness, a new dawn shall arise from the burning embers of the past. It may seem like life is just beginning again. In 2014, many of the initiated will have had to face their deepest fears.

A lot of collective issues have been exposed in 2014. It’s been tiring seeing so much superficiality and artificial egotism exposed this year. May we bring light to the darkness.

To understand is to be compassionate.

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“What you meet in another being is the projection of your own level of evolution.” – Ram Dass

The softness that is in your heart, that yearns for release and surrender – that is authentically you. It does not advertise itself and tell you how brilliant it is. It doesn’t need to. It shines always, its brilliance is magnetic and yet unseen by the eyes, it is that which is felt by the inner eyes. This is the presence of love and unconditional authenticity I would like to bring to the world in 2015, and see thrive amongst us brothers and sisters, ONE TRIBE.

It’s time to be free of all the lessons we learned, and all the layers we shed. It’s time to let them all go, released into the wind or ocean, or imagining fire burning away the edges of our souls to reveal the underlying diamond that is waiting to RADIATE its luminosity into 2015. Now is the time for all that we no longer need to be released.

May we all find our collective calling as souls and find the freedom and support to CO-CREATE from our soul’s desires, from the deep knowledge that comes from speaking and honoring one’s SELF.

Freedom – what is freedom? It is to be free with all your heart and soul.

May we manifest from the heart with LOVE, RESPECT, INTEGRITY and call in our Higher Self for guidance. Decide to make a difference in the world, starting with the self. Wishing you abundant BLESSINGS and LIGHT in 2015.

Thanks to all those special souls who graced me with your presence in 2014 (you know who you are) and inviting in all the new expanding souls, wishing you ever-more sunrises, sunsets and JOYFULNESS!

All paths lead to love and unity consciousness. It is done. 2015 is the year for the initiated, the year when we put all our heart-centered wisdom into action, to shine and become what we were always meant to be.

Open your heart and see with new eyes. If anyone needs me – I’ll be in love!

Ready for 2015.

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Expect Miracles

posted by David G Arenson ND

expect miraclesDo we live in a universe of Infinite Possibilities?

Is it possible that “EXPECTING MIRACLES” may not only be a reasonable approach, it could be scientifically valid?

“If a universe can be imagined, it exists.” ~ Professor M. R. Franks

“There are hundreds of different radio waves being broadcast all around you from distant stations. At any given instant, your office or car or living room is full of these radio waves. However if you turn on a radio, you can listen to only one frequency at a time; these other frequencies are not in phase with each other.

Each station has a different frequency, a different energy. As a result, your radio can only be turned to one broadcast at a time. Likewise, in our universe we are tuned into the frequency that corresponds to physical reality. But there are an infinite number of parallel realities coexisting with us in the same room, although we cannot tune into them.” ~Professor Steven Weinberg

Is there a theory of the universe that is so wildly unlikely, so limitless, so enchanting, so unbelievably miraculous that perhaps it could be true?

“All matter originates and exists only by virtue of a force…” ~ Max Planck

Could there be infinite possibilities (alternative universes) that all exist simultaneously in the eternal now moment, all happening and co-inciding with each other in their own space and time?

If this is our “reality” then truly, everything one ever thought was true, is not—we may have to recalibrate every idea or concept we ever had about life itself.

In parallel or alternate universes, alternative versions of who you thought you were are living their lives, going to sleep, having dreams, and waking up in an alternate world!

In each parallel universe, this alternate self has different skills and interests. In another universe, perhaps they’ve discovered the cure for old age, or cancer, and perhaps their entire social conditioning is radically different. Imagine the possibilities of an infinite number of ethical, moral and political experiments.

“We all exist in multiple universes and create our own bubble of reality.” ~ Gerald O’Donnell

It came to me recently that we are so stuck within our little box of reality, our little paradigm that says we have a past, present and future and this and that identity, culture, family, etc.

This is a mistake, an illusion, a falsehood, that keeps us from seeing the true picture, that reality is way vaster than we can imagine. This super reality is the space and spaciousness beyond space and time, the ethers where true reality exists. Infinite possibility.

“There are vibrations of many different universes right here, right now. We’re just not in tune with them.” ~ Dr. Michio Kaku

If one takes a big step back into the space beyond space and time, the ethers of super reality, the space of God, everything is happening in the eternal now. There is no concept of past, present or future.

“There are probably other parallel universes in our living room–this is modern physics.” ~ Dr. Michio Kaku

According to Burt Goldman, “An infinite number of parallel realities exist.” Goldman’s website, Quantum Jumping states, “In alternate universes, everything you desire may have already taken place.”

According to this quantum theory, if we have an infinite number of selves, then there are an infinite number of possibilities. Spiral into new realms of possibility, like life being quantum, infinite, beyond imagination, endless. Welcome to quantum theory!

One could certainly understand falling in love with quantum life with many worlds representing reality—an endless river flowing into the ocean opening to all eternity and returning to the one who has loved all creation forever.

If our whole perception has been completely stuck in how we perceive ourselves, we are actually “stuck” in time and space and potentially, it is only in our dreamstate, that we have the capacity to really “travel” beyond space and time.

In that space (call it Super Reality), really all lives co-exist—past, future, present—all look like a cascade of cards of a deck. One can lay cards on the table and imagine that each one is one of your lifetimes and interact with them (future, present, past). Can you imagine a vast and great version of reality, far more infinite and multidimensional then every imagined before? Can you start to understand more from the perspective of God, or the Ascended Masters—more in terms of the progression of the soul?

This means that the pain and suffering we see happening throughout our planet is just a scene on one of the cards. Really in that deck, could there be the grandest times of myth and imagination – Atlantis, and Lemuria, dancing with Star People, and even angels? The adversity we are going through is because we are feeling so disconnected from our soul calling, our soul brothers and soul sisters and soul tribe. Have we just forgotten who we are?

Is the whole truth in the sun and the stars, in the fact that it is consciousness that creates and binds the whole universe together, in the idea that all is love, and all that is important for us to know is love? This is our infinite potential, our breathtaking universe. Is LOVE the ultimate message behind it all?

Come together now.

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Prophecy, Revelation & the Truth Beyond the Universe

posted by David G Arenson ND

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“We all exist in multiple universes and create our own bubble of reality.” ~ Gerald O’Donnell

It came to me recently that we are so stuck within our little BOX of reality…our little paradigm that says we have a past, present and future and X identity, culture, family (etc). Sound familiar?

This is a mistake, an illusion, a falsehood, that keeps us from seeing the true picture, that reality is way vaster than we can imagine. This SUPER REALITY is the space and spaciousness BEYOND space and time, the ethers where true reality exists.

Something going on? Think you think too much? Could there be truth in what Wayne Dyer said (“You’ll see it when you believe it?”) – and if so, how can we make sense of that?

Many folks are getting excited by examining past lives (perhaps)….and even future lives! Whilst, there is little doubt, there are benefits in exploring and healing all our incarnations, in my experience of people, there is more than enough for an eternity just to stick to THIS LIFETIME without worrying about other lifetimes or potential lifetimes!

This is due to everything happening in the ETERNAL NOW.

“There are probably other parallel universes in our living room–this is modern physics.” ~ Dr. Michio Kaku

The truth is in the SUN and the STARS, in the fact that it is CONSCIOUSNESS that creates and binds the whole universe together, in the idea that all is LOVE, and all that is important for us to know is LOVE.

In 2011, a program was released that approached the multiverse. It called itself QUANTUM JUMPING (see: http://www.quantumjumping.com). The designer of this guided meditation/hypnosis program was BURT GOLDMAN. I completed the entire program in 2011.

“An infinite number of parallel realities exist..” ~ Burt Goldman

According to Burt’s website, “In alternate universes, everything you desire may have already taken place.” The program Quantum Jumping is said to help people tap into this “infinite potential.”

They posit that according to quantum physics, we have an infinite number of selves, and an infinite number of possibilities. When you consider that, your mind spirals into new realms of possibility, like life being quantum, infinite, beyond imagination, endless…Fun!

One could certainly understand falling in love with life...an endless river flowing into the ocean opening to all eternity and returning to the ONE who has loved all creation forever.

Via meditation, I used to visit “different selves” called “doppelgangers” and receive wisdom and instruction as per my requests.

I used to enjoy these meditations especially on the boat to work. I was very fortunate to work on an island paradise. On the deck (on the front of the boat) every day to work, I would meditate and speak to my future self, or my self in other infinite universes to get advice.

It never made too much sense to me, yet I thought it was fun, and painless and completely painless.

Recently I realized that our whole perception is completely stuck in how we perceive ourselves. We are actually “stuck” in time and space and only in our dreamstate do we really “travel” beyond space and time.

In that space (call it SUPER REALITY), really all lives co-exist – past, future, present – all look like a cascade of cards of a deck. One can lay cards on the table and imagine that each one is one of your lifetimes and interact with them (future, present, past). It helped me to see a greater picture, more from the perspective of God, or the Ascended Masters more in terms of the progression of the soul, my personal fascination.

This means that the pain and suffering we see happening throughout our planet is just a scene on one of the cards. Really in that deck, there are grand times of Atlantis, and Lemuria, dancing with Star People, and angels. The pain and suffering we are feeling is because we are feeling so disconnected from our soul calling, our soul brothers and soul sisters and soul tribe.

Come together now.

__________________________________________________________

Are you ready to take the next step?

Work with me! Interested in being coached by David…

I am looking for BOLD and INTREPID souls for whom NO is never ENOUGH,
for whom success is something beyond any material achievement, however wonderful they are.

Please email – davidgarenson@gmail.com

Please follow me on FACEBOOK/davidarenson
__________________________________________________________

Photo Credits: Courtesy of The MasterShift

No Copyright Infringement Intended.

What do you think? Feel free to comment down below!
You are awesome as you are, and I love you!

And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!

David Starlight, Australia’s Leading Soul-Coach – Spiritual Teacher, Energy Healer and Celebrity Therapist.

Find out more about me: http://www.findshambhala.com
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