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Healing and Transformation

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I entered into a very unhealthy relationship when I was in India, when I was like a slave to an Indian woman, and she was my Master. It was only a short few days, yet still deeply disturbed me. I realised I had a lot of healing to do to understand myself, understand woman and take charge of my manliness, masculine energy.

When one is slave, one loses one’s self-esteem. It impacts deeply our identity, how we feel about ourselves, how we view who we are. Enslavement is about control and pushing people down, so you may feel you steal their energy, feel you are above, greater. The more you enslave others, you more you enslave yourself, as really you are acting out of deep-seated fears. The fear is controlling you. The fear is what speaks to your mind and makes you bring others down. It is usually sourced in both sadism and masochism.

Yet always both slave and master have lessons to learn. The narcissist and the empath both have to learn how to grow, how to see themselves and others in a mature, adult way. It is not an easy path.

The empath must learn not to unconditionally accept being demeaned, lowered…

Feminine men get pushed over, ignored, and that is what I have faced, too, in the “business world” too – being ignored or pushed to the back of the line.

There is growth and healing in my self-worth and masculinity.

Therein lies the truth for you too.

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You are a creation of God.
This is why you really are good enough.
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David Zenon Starlyte – SOUL COACH, SPEAKER and ASCENSION GUIDE
My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com
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Wherever I go, I find superficiality, online I get approached all the time by people with an agenda to sell me something, convince me to buy from them.

On social media, there are many as well with an agenda, to sell you something. Some promote spirituality, and then send you hard sales messages.

There is an avante-gard  concept of manifesting consciously, and the law of attraction that is desperate. What it means is that chasing something may chase it away. Attraction is not something that can be “forced” or manipulated. It flows naturally. In chemistry, “positive” attracts “negative” forces.

As energetic beings, we are always affecting our environment, as it affects us, spontaneously.
Sometimes we get what we thought we wanted, only to realise it does not bring us joy, nor is it really heart-fulfilling.
Like you want a relationship, but then you get one, and you’re miserable.
And then it’s like – back to the drawing board!
There is always conscious and unconscious creation. Since we are souls having a human experience, the mind is the alchemy of soul and body – the body is genetically predisposed via its ancestral inheritance. Manifesting is always going to have these aspects at play – what does the soul want? What does the body want or need? Why?
What will serve the soul lessons?
Is the desire aligned to the soul?

How to manifest:

Focus on what you want.

Believe it will come.

Think about it as if it is already here.

Move towards it as if it is already complete.

Take on the shape and form of that which you desire.

Become that which you desire and you will have all of this automatically.
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“All truth passes through three stages.
First, it is ridiculed.
Second, it is violently opposed.
Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.”
Arthur Schopenhaue

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You are a creation of God.
This is why you really are good enough.
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You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!
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David Zenon Starlyte – SOUL COACH, SPEAKER and ASCENSION GUIDE
My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com
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Why do I need you in the light, If I do not find you in the dark” – Kahlil Gibran

I speak to the wounded feminine. You know who you are.

You’ve been suffering for aeons.

Suppressed.
Dishonoured.
Disrespected.
Taken for granted.
Dehumanised.
Feared.
Overpowered.
Limited.
Condemned.
Degraded.
Raped.
Traded.
Devalued.
Used for sexual pleasure.
Abused.
Persecuted by religions.
Mutilated genitally.
Castrated emotionally.

Now, you’re confused and you lash out.

And you (justifiably) think men are the enemy.

Attracted to your suppressor, you’re drawn into a world of shadows.

And you want to take from men.

Take as much as you can.
Take everything and run.

Take revenge for all women who’ve suffered in history.

Take your power back.

Take men’s power away.

Take your sexuality back.

Take all the wealth you can.
Take traditionally male jobs.

This taking your power back is healthy.

Taking revenge is not.

Dominating the masculine is not healthy.

Emulating the masculine by suppressing your feminine is not the answer either.


You want to be a man in a man’s world

You want to take over from men.

You want to crack the whip, climb the mountain of corporate success and show men how it’s done.

Women (divine feminine) – where is your heart?

Did you forget what it is to be a woman – to be compassionate – to be a support – fertile ground for ideas to sprout?

 “Your heart knows the way, run in that direction” – Rumi

Is there anything more beautiful than love? It’s important we tear down these walls in society and tear them down with love – so the breakthrough is not just in the mind – but on the ground – where we can build stepping stones paved with love.

“It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye.” – Antoine de Saint-Exupéry

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You are a creation of God.
This is why you really are good enough.
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You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!
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David Zenon Starlyte – SOUL COACH, SPEAKER and ASCENSION GUIDE
My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com
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When you look in the eyes of a puppy dog, what do you see?

Do you see unconditional love, beauty, connection, affection? Is it part of you or are you separate from it?

What do you see within you?

Idea of separation.
Fear of separation (separation-anxiety).
Past trauma and fear it will be repeated.
Old history and stories and beliefs about the world.
Limited identity.

Is this who you are?

Individual consciousness, mind.
Ideas.
Spreading illusion.
Self-concept.
Anger.
Disappointment.
Hatred of self.
Hatred of others.
Insecurity.
Masks.

All stories. We think (many thoughts). Are thoughts real?

All play.

All actors playing roles.

We’re actually ONE composite entity, and this entity is love.

Pretending to be something is painful.

This is your TRUE SELF:

Limitless.
Connection to all.
The flower of life.
Unity of every part.
Every part reflecting each other.
Magnified love.

 

We play and have played many roles, victim-perpetrator, brother-sister, mother, father, warmonger-peacemaker. Many notes in the symphony we are. We are the music and the musician. We are all that we are. I AM THAT I AM. And so it is. The mirror is love.

Relax. Breathe in, breathe out. Release.
THANK YOU.

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You are a creation of God.
This is why you really are good enough.
_________________________________________________
You are awesome as you are, and I love you!
And if you love me back, please click ‘share’ up at the top!
_________________________________________
David Zenon Starlyte – SOUL COACH, SPEAKER and ASCENSION GUIDE
My guidance is channeled from Spirit, channeled from the STARS. I’m a gateway, or portal to soul enlightenment (basically self-knowledge). Find out more about me: www.davidstarlyte.com
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Please follow me on Facebook: davidstarlyte and Instagram: davidstarlyte
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