God or the Universe does not make mistakes.
There are no accidents or coincidences.
This is the way it is.
Everything in your life has led up to this moment and these exact circumstances.
As they say in the game of poker, this is the hand you were dealt and this is the hand you have to play out. It is totally up to you.
Based on your thoughts, beliefs, words and actions you create your reality.
The outcome is totally dependent on you!
YOU make all the difference in the world.
Whatever you focus your attention on is where your energy goes.
This is the Law of Focused Attention or The Law of Attraction.
You have free will and freedom of choice so you determine the outcome.
So, be clear that everything in your life depends on you.
You are the cause and source of everything that you create.
It starts with your inner reality, your inner game.
You can focus your thoughts, energy and resources on what you want in a positive direction.
Or you can focus on the negative…..on fear……on most of the things you hear people talk about.
Most of the topics in the news, on the Internet, TV, radio, etc are fear-based and negative.
Sad that drama, trauma and scandal is more interesting than the wonderful things in life.
Your most important choice is where are you going to focus your attention.
POSITIVE or negative, FREEDOM or fear, ABUNDANCE or lack, OPPORTUNITY or limitation?
Because whatever you believe is what is. Whatever you choose is your reality.
This is the Power of Acknowledgement.
Complaining is just a waste of time and energy.
Wise people do not pay attention to this. They do not spend time with negative people.
They create positive environments, they look for opportunities, they create solutions, they create positive results. They make things happen.
It takes much more effort, courage, determination and persistence to think creatively and to follow your own path. It is much easier to let things be the way they are and not create what you want and follow your dreams. Creators and achievers use their energy to think differently, to trust their intuition and inspirations.
What are you going to do now?
Successful people create rather than compete.
When they are told that they can’t do something, then that is exactly what they must do.
They have an overwhelmingly positive and triumphant belief that anything is possible.
They do what it takes to succeed.
You can do all of these wonderful things and not violate the rights of others.
You can follow proper principles and create magnificent results.
Be clear that temptation will present short cuts and the ego will attempt to manipulate you.
How you conduct yourself and how you achieve your results are even more important than the results your achieve. So choose wisely. Once you say something or do something it cannot be taken back. Make sure your efforts are for your highest possibilities and for the good of all concerned.
This time in history offers you the greatest opportunities that we have seen since the Great Depression.
Make it count……seize the day……..seize the moment.
Turn your dreams into reality.
The MEGA Coach
Want to have your best harvest ever?
Here is some wisdom from the I Ching by Brian Browne Walker.
It is also relevant to the economic and political climate.
There is a natural ebb and flow between the forces of light and dark in the world. Wisdom lies not in resisting these movements but in responding to them appropriately. Just as a plant which sprouts in the dead of winter is doomed, and one which sprouts in spring flourishes, so it is with us.
Success and prosperity accrue to those who advance in times of light and retreat in times of darkness. Retreat is not the same things as surrender, capitulation or abandonment, which are desperate and unsatisfying measures. It is instead an acceptance and a choice: we calmly accept that the energies of the moment are against us, and we wisely choose to withdraw into the safety of stillness. In this dignified and balanced manner we protect ourselves from negative influences and arrive rested in a more beneficial hour.
What enables transformation is your conscious and vigorous adherence to correct thought and behavior. No revolution or change in outer things is possible without a prior revolution or change in one’s inner way of being. Whatever change you aspire to in your affairs must be preceded by a change in heart, an active deepening and strengthening of your resolve to meet every event with equanimity, detachment and innocent goodwill. When this spiritual poise is achieved within, magnificent things are possible without.
The revolutions of others are enabled also when we refine the fire of goodness and truth inside ourselves. Sincere commitment to higher things travels outward in powerful waves from the superior person and all those around are affected by this. Indisputably, to lead one’s inner self to truth and peace is to lead the outer world to truth and peace. A beneficial revolution is assured to one who takes this path now.
These are challenging, yet interesting and powerful times for our world.
May you follow your higher purpose and highest potential for the good of all concerned.
The MEGA Coach
“The Quality of my life is directly related to the quality of my communication, with myself and with others.”
“Only 15% of a person’s success is due to their technical ability, while 85% is due to their ability to get along with people.”
You can have wonderful, expressive, fun, empowering and fulfilling relationships!
The secret is that it starts with you because you attract and create your life.
Is your desire true and are you willing to go total?
It is not a coincidence how people treat you and respond to you.
You train people how to treat you.
They pick up on your energy and communication.
Doesn’t it make sense that you should be an example of what you want in your life?
Shouldn’t you be the kind of person that deserves the relationships of your dreams?
Do you think your relationship skills and patterns only affect your love life?
Don’t they impact all of your friendships, work relationships and most importantly, your family?
How much do your relationships and communication affect your financial and career success?
Conscious awareness, kindness, compassion, tenderness, giving, unconditional love and quality communication are some of the key qualities that make a relationship attractive and desirable for the long term. Do you have these qualities? If not you can always develop them and if you already have them you can always improve them.
Whatever the current state of your relationships, you can transform them by transforming yourself. After all, how can you ask your partner to be or do something that you are not willing to be or do? Who would want to have a long term relationship with someone who was not kind, caring, loving and a good friend? Communication is so powerful and remember that you communicate silently with your eyes, energy, body language and energy even more than with your tone and words. All are important contributors to healthy, thriving relationships.
What’s exciting is that anything is possible and no matter how bad your current relationships are, you can make a quantum leap. You can become a good communicator and listener. You can become a wonderful partner. It’s up to you.
Many years ago, I promised myself that I would heal the patterns of communication and relating in my life and family and create healthy relationships. It was the most important thing in my life and I vowed that I would become a healthy example. I focused and searched for all possible information, books, seminars, guides and support. Fortunately, I met Michael Wyman and Ariel & Shya Kane.
They are great teachers and role models. But no matter how good their example and information is, I had to make the choices, take the actions and continue to learn and develop new patterns of relating and communicating until I transformed. It was worth all of the challenges, sacrifices and cost! Then the real fun began because life became so much more exciting, joyous and fulfilling. Every day I have the choice. For me, people are the greatest resource in the world and to make the best contribution that I can, I have to be the best person and being that I can be. How about you? How important is the quality of your life? What contribution do you want to make? You can achieve anything you truly want!
Today, Ariel & Shya Kane’s new book, “How to Have A Match Made in Heaven” goes on sale at Amazon.com with $400 in additional value. It contains a wealth of their experience and proven, practical tools and suggestions on how to create relationships that work. Give yourself the gift of this incredible book and guide to creating wonderful, meaningful and magical relationships. If you are having challenges in your relationships, this book can start you on the right path. If you are doing well in your relationships, you can always learn something new and be even better.
Make your life and relationships heaven on earth!
The MEGA Coach
Life is quite simple when you live and love from your heart.
Have you noticed that it is difficult, if not impossible to have a relationship with someone in your head?
When you feel loved is it an actual feeling or is it a thought?
Have you discovered your own strategies for feeling loved?
Have you discovered your partners strategies for feeling loved?
Don’t all relationships require love, care and encouragement to grow and thrive?
Doesn’t true communication require being present and active listening?
When you give yourself and your relationships these qualities, you are watering your victory garden.
We all need nurturing.
People are so much more sensitive then they like to admit.
Most adults are just little kids in big bodies
We are like the beautiful flowers in nature’s garden.
We need sun, water and fertile soil to grow.
A friend shared the following profound quote with me:
“We are not responding to this instant if we are judging any aspect of it.
The ego looks for what to criticize.
This always involves comparing with the past.
But love looks upon the world peacefully and accepts.
The ego searches for shortcomings and weaknesses.
Love watches for any sign of strength.
It sees how far each one has come and not how far he has to go.
How simple it is to love, and exhausting it is always to find fault,
for every time we see a fault we think something needs to be done about it.
Love knows that nothing is ever needed but more love.
It is what we all do with our hearts that affects others most deeply.
It is not the movements of our body or the words within our mind that transmits love.
We love from heart to heart.”
Gerald G. Jampolsky
“Teach Only Love”
Make the most of this holiday weekend and take great care of yourself.
Water your own garden and acknowledge, recognize and appreciate the people in your life.
Create your own “Match Made in Heaven!”
Remember that on Tuesday, September 4th, Ariel & Shya Kane’s wonderful new book comes out.
Purchase it on Amazon and you can receive free bonus gifts worth $400 in value.
Have a loving and prosperous weekend!
The MEGA Coach