The Miracle of Elimination and Forgiveness
From “Open Your Mind to Prosperity” by Catherine Ponder:
“You cleanse your mind for prosperity and attract your good by first writing out what you want to eliminate from your life. By writing out what you want to eliminate, you open the space and create a vacuum for what you want to manifest. Just like planting a victory garden, you want to clear and weed the soil so that it is clean and fertile before planting your highest quality seeds and plants (dreams and desires).
If you want to be prospered, healed and have your prayers answered, you must clean up and clean out your life. It is said that God (as divine law) withholds the next development until order is first established in the present situation.
After you write out your elimination list, the next step to cleanse your mind for prosperity is by practicing forgiveness. Holding grudges and negative feelings toward others, or toward yourself blocks your own prosperity. Until you practice forgiveness, your true prosperity will not come.
When you hold resentment toward someone of something, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel. The practice of forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and be free.
The word forgive means “to give up or let go.” Forgiveness is a pleasant inner act that leaves you at peace with yourself and others. Forgiveness is also a constant process. It needs to be done on a regular basis with any negative feelings toward people or conditions. Along with declaring that you forgive other people, declare that they also forgive you. Also release situations or conditions you have been unable to resolve.
A good formula is to forgive your enemies and release your friends. Forgive the people you hate or resent. Release the people you love. Remember that you never lose anything that still belongs to you by divine right, through the act of emotional release. Instead, you make way for your good to manifest in grander ways than ever before.”
“I now let go of worn out things, worn out conditions, and worn out relationships. Divine order is now established and maintained in me and in my world.”
“The inflow and outflow of everything in my life is established in divine order. I am peaceful and poised.”
“All that has offended me, I forgive. Within and without, I forgive. Things past, things present, things future I forgive. I forgive everything and everybody who can possibly need forgiveness in my past and present. I forgive positively everyone. I am free and all others are free, too. All things are cleared up between us, now and forever.”
“I now release and am released from everything and everybody that are no longer part of the divine plan for my life. Everything and everybody that are no longer part of the divine plan for my life now release me.”
“I am in right relationship with all people and all situations now.”
The MEGA Coach
“THE SUCCESS OF A PHYSICAL LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL, MOST WORTHY, BUT THE PERFECTION OF YOURSELF IS A THOUSAND TIMES MORE VALUABLE THAN ALL THE WEALTH YOU CAN ACCUMULATE ABOUT YOU.”
Enlightenment is possible during your lifetime. You can be, do and have your highest good and actualize your divine potential. Self Mastery is the true purpose for your life. You have free choice and you create your reality.
Here is a suggestion for a powerful breakthrough. Take out a piece of paper and on top of the page in the center, write, “My Qualities.” Then draw a line down the center of it. On the left side at the top write “Weaknesses” and on the right side at the top write “Strengths.”
Take a few deep breathes in through your nose and out through your mouth. Start with any of your weaknesses or negative qualities and write each one down on the list on the left. Observe any negative pattern, behavior or quality that you have and write them down. Be sincere and do not judge yourself, be honest and acknowledge what is. Be courageous and tell the truth about yourself and when you are complete review your list. Make sure that you have everything negative about yourself listed so you are complete.
Take a few more deep breathes in the same manner. Then look at your strengths or positive qualities and write each one down on the list on the right. Continue being honest and acknowledge any positive quality, behavior or pattern about yourself. Make sure that you go total. This is a time for absolute disclosure and for revealing everything. This is not a time for modesty, it is a time for total truth. Make sure that you have everything positive about yourself listed so you are complete.
You may notice that you run out of qualities to describe you. Give it a few minutes and you will find that more come to mind and flow out in little streams of creativity. For both the negative and positive qualities, allow yourself a little additional time when you think you are done and see if anything else reveals itself. Do not force this process, allow it to happen from your sincere intention to see the truth and acknowledge what is.
This is your Self Inventory. When you have everything listed, go over your weaknesses and negative qualities and ask yourself if they have increased in intensity or decreased in intensity over the past few years, 5 years, 10 years, etc. You may be quite surprised about what you discover about even you “negative patterns.”
Then review your strengths and positive qualities and do the same thing. Have they decreased or increased over the years in quantity and intensity? Then look at both sides of your list and see what you see. Acknowledge the truth about your patterns of behavior, conduct and qualities. This is where your life is right now.
Do you have preferences regarding your strengths and weaknesses? Do you judge yourself for any of them? Does judging, criticizing or making yourself wrong help you grow, improve or feel better? After all, how could you be any different than you are right now? What would happen if you could suspend your judgment and criticism and just be an observer, like an anthropologist studying a species? This gives you a wonderful perspective to discover new things about yourself and make new choices.
Every human being has both positive and negative qualities or strengths and weaknesses. The key is to allow yourself to be the way you are and to stop judging yourself and wasting your precious time and energy. Just by noticing a negative behavior and letting it be the way it is allows it to unwire itself and fade away. The key is not to judge or resist it. Judging or resisting your own behavior is like adding gasoline to a fire. It makes it grow stronger. When you stop adding energy to a negative pattern of behavior and just acknowledge or observe it, the pattern completes itself.
These patterns of behavior determine the true quality of your life, health, relationships and success. By having the courage to acknowledge the truth you can now make clear, conscious choices about you, your life and career and where you want to go. Before you can set and achieve any goal, you need to know where you are.
Consciously review your strengths and weaknesses. See where it is best to specifically focus your awareness, time and energy to neutralize and even eliminate your key weaknesses that sabotage your well being, relationships and success.
It is very possible after completing this powerful exercise you experience a breakthrough.
Feel free to email me about it either through the comments here or directly at email@example.com.
Have a Magnificent Day!
The MEGA Coach
You can use your life, your situation, your circumstances to wake up or you can use it to put yourself further asleep. It is your life, so it is your choice. If you do not consciously make a choice, you are still making a choice.
An article in Success Magazine reported, “Psychologists say 68% of people miss out on opportunity simply because they are not awake to it.” Almost 70% of our population is not taking advantage of the opportunities in front of them. What about you? How much of your life, joy, health, happiness and abundance are you wasting because you are not present and paying attention to what is in front of you?
Each moment is a chance to start fresh, to make a new choice and move in a new and better direction for your life! At any given moment you have the power to say this is not how the story is going to end!
Here are good suggestions from Roy Eugene Davis and The MEGA Coach:
Take some quality time for yourself in a good environment to look at your life. Sincerely reflect about what you have been doing and how you have been living your life up until now. Are you happy, satisfied and fulfilled with your choices and actions? Is this the direction and path you want to continue on? Will it create your highest good?
What can you do and what are you committed to do to either make a change or to improve your total well being and personal and professional circumstances?
What can you do and what are you committed to do to nurture your spiritual, mental, emotional, physical and financial growth?
Write out your vision, purpose, goals and your immediate actions to make it happen.
Go forward, one step at a time, with confidence and firm resolve.
Anything is possible! You can do it! Follow your divine plan and take sincere, appropriate action one moment at a time. Stay present and focus on what is in front of you. Do you best now, in the present moment and you create the best possible future and make the most of your past.
Make Your Life a Masterpiece!
The MEGA Coach
Small steps add up to be big improvements one step at a time. Be patient and supportive of yourself and allow life to be the way it is. Make a small change every day and take consistent action. You will enjoy significant growth in 30 days.
“Little things don’t mean a lot, they mean everything.”
Acknowledge even the smallest wins, acts of kindness or good things. By acknowledging, recognizing and appreciating the small wins you gain momentum. As you gain momentum your belief, faith, energy and enthusiasm grow. This raises your vibration and increases your vitality and energy.
In turn, this gives you more self-confidence and self-esteem. Your expectations expand and you become a magnet for success. Make sure that your self-talk or self-acknowledgement is positive, nurturing, encouraging and consistent. If you do not take care of yourself and program your mind, who will?
Consistency, like a steady, gentle wind blowing in the same direction creates long term change. Gradual, steady growth and progress is the best way for lasting success.
You can give your full effort and go total without a reckless or unbalanced approach. If your effort or energy is out of control it is a clue to take a few breaths and center. Balance, focus and consistent action creates long term growth and success. Be appropriate to the moment.
Awareness is very important to a healthy process.
Learn to observe and be present without attachment or judging.
Listen to your intuition and let it guide you.
With time, patience and consistency you are guaranteed to succeed.
Failure is impossible unless you quit.
It is not about how fast you succeed, it is about the quality of how you succeed.
Remember to enjoy the journey.
The Mega Coach