God or the Universe does not make mistakes. There are no accidents or coincidences. This moment is perfect! This is the way it is.
Everything in your life has led up to this moment and these exact circumstances. As they say in the game of poker, this is the hand you were dealt and this is the hand you have to play out. Make the best of it!
Based on your thoughts, beliefs, words and actions you create your reality. You are totally responsible for your choices and the outcome! YOU make all the difference in the world.
Whatever you focus your attention on is where your energy goes. This is the Law of Focused Attention or The Law of Attraction. You have free will and freedom of choice so you determine your experience and results.
Be clear that everything in your life depends on you. You are the cause and source of everything that you create. It starts with your inner reality, your inner game – your beliefs and key values.
You can focus your thoughts, energy and resources on what you want in a positive direction. Or you can focus on the negative…..on fear……on what most people talk about. Most of the topics in the news, on the Internet, TV, radio, etc are fear-based and negative. Sad that drama, trauma and scandal is what sells news and captures people’s attention more than the wonderful things in life.
Your most important choice is where are you going to focus your attention and resources. POSITIVE or negative, FREEDOM or fear, ABUNDANCE or lack, OPPORTUNITY or limitation? Whatever you believe is what is. Whatever you choose is your reality. This is the Power of Acknowledgement. This is what you set in motion with your intention and focus.
Complaining is just a waste of time and energy. Wise people don’t do it. They do not spend time with negative people. They create positive environments, they look for opportunities, they create solutions, they create positive results. They make things happen.
It takes more effort, courage, determination and persistence to think creatively and follow your own path. It is easier to let things be the way they are and not create what you want to follow your dreams – not be at source and responsible. Creators and achievers use their energy to think differently, to trust their intuition and inspirations and take action.
What are you going to do now?
Successful people create rather than compete. When they are told that they can’t do something, they smile and do it anyway. They are not limited by other people’s beliefs or limited reality. They have an overwhelmingly positive and triumphant belief that anything is possible. They do what it takes to succeed.
You can do all of these wonderful things and not violate the rights of others. You can follow proper principles and create magnificent results. Be clear that temptation will present short cuts and the ego will attempt to manipulate you.
How you conduct yourself and how you achieve your results are even more important than the results your achieve. So choose wisely. Once you say something or do something it cannot be taken back. Make sure your efforts are for your highest possibilities and for the good of all concerned.
This time in history offers you the greatest opportunities that we have seen since the Great Depression. Make it count……seize the day……..seize the moment. Turn your dreams into reality. Make your life a masterpiece!
The MEGA Coach
“Only 15% of a person’s success is due to their technical ability, while 85% is due to their ability to get along with people.”
You can have wonderful, expressive, fun, empowering and fulfilling relationships! The secret is that it starts with you because you attract and create your life. Is your desire true and are you willing to go total?
It is not a coincidence how people treat you and respond to you. In fact, you train others how to treat you. They pick up on your energy and communication. You are communicating every moment whether you actually say anything verbally. Words are 7%, tone is 38% and body language is 55% of communication.
Be an example of what you want in your life. Especially since you are a magnet that attracts other people, situations and opportunities. Be the kind of person that deserves the relationships of your dreams.
Do your primary relationship skills and patterns only affect your love life? Don’t they also impact all of your friendships, work relationships and most importantly, your family? How much do your relationships affect your financial and career success? Communication is a powerful force.
“The Quality of my life is directly related to the quality of my communication, with myself and with others.”
Conscious awareness, kindness, compassion, tenderness, giving, unconditional love and quality communication are key qualities that make a relationship attractive and desirable for the long term. Do you have these qualities? If not, you can develop them and you can always improve them.
Whatever the current state of your relationships, you can transform them by transforming yourself. The secret is to look inside yourself and take responsibility instead of blaming your partner. After all, how can you ask your partner to be or do something that you are not willing to be or do? Who would want to have a long term relationship with someone who was not kind, caring, loving and a good friend?
No matter how challenging your current relationship may be, you can make a quantum leap. You can be a good communicator and listener. You can be more sincere and interested. You can be a wonderful partner. Anything is possible and the great news is it’s up to you!
Make your life and relationships heaven on earth and manifest the divine plan of your life, under grace and in perfect ways!
The MEGA Coach
Who is the most important person for your success? Who is totally responsible for your experience and reality? That’s right, it’s you! You deserve the credit and acknowledgement for it all.
If you are not happy or satisfied with any part of your life, your health, your relationships, financial position and success, there is only one place to look…..within yourself. This is why it is so important to have a good relationship with yourself and to communicate effectively with yourself before looking to other people.
More valuable information from Ariel and Shya Kane – Instantaneous Transformation
“In order to build a strong foundation for relationship, you must first investigate your relationship with yourself. If you are unkind to yourself, you will ultimately be unkind to anyone who forms a partnership with you. When you connect with another, he or she becomes an extension of you. Ultimately, you will pick on that person in the same manner that you pick on yourself. Think back to disagreements you’ve had with others in your life. Haven’t the worst fights or meanest arguments happened with those you love? That is because Heaven on Earth begins with you, If you are in turmoil inside, there will be no peace in your relationship.“
The Three Principles of Instantaneous Transformation:
1) Anything you resist, persists, grows stronger and dominates your life and relationships.
2) No two things can occupy the same space at the same time.
You can only be doing one thing in any given moment of your life.
3) Anything you allow to be exactly as it is will complete itself and dissolve all on its own.
The best place to start is be kind to yourself and to be kind to others. You can have anything you want in this world as long as it does not violate the rights of others.
“Kindness is a language that we all can understand.
Even the blind can see it and the deaf can hear it.”
The MEGA Coach
Life is quite simple when you live and love from your heart. After all, it is difficult, if not impossible to have a relationship with someone in your head?
When you feel loved is it an actual feeling or is it a thought? Have you discovered your own strategies for feeling loved? Have you discovered your partners strategies for feeling loved?
Don’t you agree that all relationships require love, care and encouragement to grow and thrive? Doesn’t true communication require being present and active listening? When you give yourself and your relationships these qualities, you are watering your victory garden.
We all need nurturing. People are so much more sensitive then they like to admit. Most adults are just little kids in big bodies We are like the beautiful flowers in nature’s garden. We need sun, water and fertile soil to grow. We want to be loved.
A friend shared the following profound quote with me:
“We are not responding to this instant if we are judging any aspect of it.
The ego looks for what to criticize.
This always involves comparing with the past.
But love looks upon the world peacefully and accepts.
The ego searches for shortcomings and weaknesses.
Love watches for any sign of strength.
It sees how far each one has come and not how far he has to go.
How simple it is to love, and exhausting it is always to find fault,
for every time we see a fault we think something needs to be done about it.
Love knows that nothing is ever needed but more love.
It is what we all do with our hearts that affects others most deeply.
It is not the movements of our body or the words within our mind that transmits love.
We love from heart to heart.”
Gerald G. Jampolsky
“Teach Only Love”
Water your own garden and acknowledge, recognize and appreciate the people in your life.
Create your own “Match Made in Heaven!”
The MEGA Coach