“People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.”
The most important person you must be friends with is yourself. Kindness is a language that everyone understands. We all want to be treated with love, kindness, sincerity and respect whether it is a personal or business relationship. When these qualities are absent, harmony and balance are lost and trouble is close at hand.
It is wonderful and fun when relationships are going well and developing nicely. But when challenges arise this is the real test of your character. These moments reveal the nature of your patterns of behavior. When important issues come up, you usually revert to your strongest and most basic patterns.
When survival issues are at stake such as money, sex, religion and power, people do the strangest things to maintain their control or dominance. People can be very harsh to win or get what they want. It is sad because the only thing that truly matters is love, friendship and kindness. All of the money, sex, power and material possessions you accumulate cannot be taken with you and do not keep you warm at night or truly comfort your heart and soul.
Some people come into your life for a reason to accomplish something or for a short lesson. Even in a singular moment the lesson or experience can be so profound that it affects your whole life and you remember it forever.
Some people come into your life for a season and the time can be so special, powerful and wonderful. It is not always easy to let these people go when the time is complete. It is important to allow people to come and go appropriately into your life without attempting to hold on or control the relationship or experience. If it is meant to be long term or even forever, the relationship will let you know and remain present or return. When you attempt to control someone with your will or force, you actually push them away and damage all involved.
Some people come into your life for a lifetime and these are the “keepers.“ They share your life and your highest highs and lowest lows. A real friend shows you love, kindness and compassion and does not judge you. They are unconditional and just care about you and always want your best. Real friends are God’s blessings! They are a special gift.
Now the tricky part is to know whether a person or friend is in your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. Regardless of how long they are in your life for, make sure to give them the best you have every moment. To do this you simply have to follow proper principles and The Golden Rule.
Being human we have tendencies to be selfish, hurtful, manipulative and destructive in order to get what we so desperately think we need. Whenever the ego takes over, trouble is the result. As The I Ching states “When you exercise your ego, your spiritual development stops. Do not drag out disagreements with others because conflict is a prison that grows more dangerous every minute you are in it. Do not depart from the path of humility and correct conduct. “
You can have whatever you want without violating the rights of others. So keep your awareness burning brightly and do your best to live in the moment from your heart and intuition.
The MEGA Coach
On this special day, the Jewish New Year, know that miracles are possible. We are all connected and we are all God’s children with the same blessings for health, wealth and perfect self-expression.
Today may there be peace within. Trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be. Remember the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others. Use the gifts that you have received and pass on the love that has been given to you. Be content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
Give yourself the love and respect you deserve as a spiritual being and share it with all others who cross your path.
Have a Sweet, Healthy, Prosperous and Magnificent Year!
Together we make a difference!
The MEGA Coach
Life is an amazing adventure and you are here to actualize your divine, creative potential. Challenges and trying times test your integrity and commitment to proper principles. It is easy to feel good and make good choices when things are going well. It is when you are under pressure that your true character reveals itself.
From The I Ching by Brian Browne Walker:
“In a very real sense the progress of the world depends upon your progress as an individual now. Concentrate, then, on examining and correcting your thoughts, attitudes and actions. Improve yourself into the kind of person you yourself would follow wholeheartedly and without hesitation. Learn to accept the natural progress that occurs when you act in harmony with proper principles and seek no progress at the expense of those principles.”
The most important thing you can aspire to is being the best person you can be and actualize your divine potential. In the end, no amount of wealth or possessions can determine the quality of your character or the quality of your life.
Feeling good is your natural state when you are in alignment with your truth and essence.
“To thine own self be true.”
Life is an incredible journey to your divine destiny. It is a process to discover your deepest truth and live it. Every moment is designed to give you exactly what you need to grow. This moment is exactly the way it is supposed to be.
Is there any real benefit to resisting or complaining about what is happening now? Will it change anything? Eventually you have to deal with what is because even what you resist persists. By being present and embracing the opportunity of the moment you have your greatest potential for growth and transformation.
Life is not always easy and the lessons you receive may be challenging. It may require you to go deep to your core and search your soul for faith or trust. When you allow life to be the way it is, you empower yourself to discover your truth and the greatest opportunity available.
Sometimes it may appear that everything is falling apart around you and you are unable to do anything right or accomplish what you want. Yet, in that very moment, the universe is still supporting your greatest growth. The way out is in.
The greater the challenge, the greater the opportunity. The bigger the risk, the bigger the reward. It is up to you…..it always have been and it always will be. YOU determine your choices and outcomes in your life.
It is an amazing part of life that when everything seems to be falling apart that you are actually progressing and moving closer to your highest growth. Although the mind can scream when things are not going according to its plan, life is guiding you, calling to you to grow, improve and succeed. One of the wisest things you can do is allow the moment to be the way it is. Stop complaining or resisting and let it be. Go forward in the best possible way using your awareness and intuition to guide you.
Often you discover that what you receive is even better than you could have planned for and there is a higher power or energy guiding this incredible universe and all of life. When you are present and allow life to be the way it is you enter a special zone or energy flow. This is when you feel so connected and in tune. Some call it “being in the zone or in the flow.”
The MEGA Coach
God or the Universe does not make mistakes. There are no accidents or coincidences. This moment is perfect! This is the way it is.
Everything in your life has led up to this moment and these exact circumstances. As they say in the game of poker, this is the hand you were dealt and this is the hand you have to play out. Make the best of it!
Based on your thoughts, beliefs, words and actions you create your reality. You are totally responsible for your choices and the outcome! YOU make all the difference in the world.
Whatever you focus your attention on is where your energy goes. This is the Law of Focused Attention or The Law of Attraction. You have free will and freedom of choice so you determine your experience and results.
Be clear that everything in your life depends on you. You are the cause and source of everything that you create. It starts with your inner reality, your inner game – your beliefs and key values.
You can focus your thoughts, energy and resources on what you want in a positive direction. Or you can focus on the negative…..on fear……on what most people talk about. Most of the topics in the news, on the Internet, TV, radio, etc are fear-based and negative. Sad that drama, trauma and scandal is what sells news and captures people’s attention more than the wonderful things in life.
Your most important choice is where are you going to focus your attention and resources. POSITIVE or negative, FREEDOM or fear, ABUNDANCE or lack, OPPORTUNITY or limitation? Whatever you believe is what is. Whatever you choose is your reality. This is the Power of Acknowledgement. This is what you set in motion with your intention and focus.
Complaining is just a waste of time and energy. Wise people don’t do it. They do not spend time with negative people. They create positive environments, they look for opportunities, they create solutions, they create positive results. They make things happen.
It takes more effort, courage, determination and persistence to think creatively and follow your own path. It is easier to let things be the way they are and not create what you want to follow your dreams – not be at source and responsible. Creators and achievers use their energy to think differently, to trust their intuition and inspirations and take action.
What are you going to do now?
Successful people create rather than compete. When they are told that they can’t do something, they smile and do it anyway. They are not limited by other people’s beliefs or limited reality. They have an overwhelmingly positive and triumphant belief that anything is possible. They do what it takes to succeed.
You can do all of these wonderful things and not violate the rights of others. You can follow proper principles and create magnificent results. Be clear that temptation will present short cuts and the ego will attempt to manipulate you.
How you conduct yourself and how you achieve your results are even more important than the results your achieve. So choose wisely. Once you say something or do something it cannot be taken back. Make sure your efforts are for your highest possibilities and for the good of all concerned.
This time in history offers you the greatest opportunities that we have seen since the Great Depression. Make it count……seize the day……..seize the moment. Turn your dreams into reality. Make your life a masterpiece!
The MEGA Coach