Communication is your key to success in all areas of your life. Your communication with yourself and others creates your reality, all outcomes and opportunities. The most important person you communicate with is YOU! Before you can accomplish anything for yourself or effectively communicate and work with anyone else, you must be clear and congruent with YOU!
Your focused attention, thoughts and beliefs and being present all greatly impact your communication and development. By mastering these areas you improve the quality of your communication with yourself and others. You also improve the results you achieve.
When you start to consciously observe your beliefs and thoughts and where you focus your attention, you will soon discover your “self-talk.” Your self-talk is the voice you hear inside. Notice how it comments on almost everything. Is your self-talk positive or negative? Are you empowering yourself to win or are you sabotaging your success before you even start?
It is wise not to underestimate the power of your self-talk and what you acknowledge about yourself, others or situations and outcomes. Positive self-talk empowers your self-esteem, self-confidence and self-image. What would happen if you could harness the power of your self-talk to create successful results?
Napoleon Hill was one of the pioneers of the idea that you can reprogram your brain with autosuggestion and shares this potent information in his bestselling book, Think and Grow Rich. In 1908, Hill met the billionaire Andrew Carnegie. Carnegie seemed suitably impressed and asked Hill if he would spend over twenty years, without pay, studying the minds of rich and successful people. Instead of pay, Carnegie provided him with the contacts and the means to approach all these successful people.
Hill spent twenty-five years studying more than 500 rich and successful people. These people included such legends as Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, Theodore Roosevelt and Alexander Bell. Hill didn’t simply observe these people from afar, he spent hours and hours over many years right by their side, watching, learning, and asking questions to discover what made them successful.
“It is a well known fact that one comes, finally, to BELIEVE whatever one repeats to one’s self, whether the statement be true or false. If a man repeats a lie over and over, he will eventually accept the lie as truth. Moreover, he will BELIEVE it to be the truth. Every man is what he is, because of the DOMINATING THOUGHTS which he permits to occupy his mind.
“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
So thinking positively is an absolute must, as is thinking about what you want, rather than thinking about what you don’t want. Be specific. All you need to do is convince your mind. Repetition is the mother of skill.
The MEGA Coach
Your beliefs and thoughts must be aligned to create what you want. See yourself having it and being worthy to have it. You have to be congruent.
Your belief systems create your values. All of your decisions stem from your values and beliefs. This is your core truth and your foundation.
You develop strong feelings, a vivid imagination and make supportive decisions for thoughts that are in sync with your core belief systems and values. Then you take the appropriate actions to achieve the results and outcomes you want. You also attract various types of resources to support your creation.
Your powerful beliefs and thoughts combine with your feelings and emotions to create a burning desire inside of you. This energy is so powerful – you will do whatever it takes to succeed and attract the people, resources and situations to make it real in the physical universe.
People who succeed have very different beliefs than people who fail. Your beliefs about who and what you are and what you are capable of greatly impact your thoughts, words, self-image, actions and results in life. Beliefs either empower you or destroy you. When you congruently believe something it commands your brain to represent what is happening in a certain way.
“One person with a belief is equal to a force of ninety-nine who have only interest.”
John Stuart Mill
To achieve excellence and success in any area, it requires positive, powerful and congruent beliefs that send commands directly to your brain and nervous system. When you believe something it actually puts you into a state or reality of it being true.
Focus your attention consistently on the good that you want to create and use your imagination. See yourself having what you want, achieving your goals, saying what you would be saying to yourself in that exact situation and live from that reality and place.
Use all of your creative tools…your beliefs/thoughts, feelings and create that burning desire. TAKE ACTION and continue to take the appropriate actions to create your desired outcome. Channel all of your beliefs, thoughts, words, energy, imagination, feelings – your burning desire – your heart, passion and enthusiasm into your reality. You are an unlimited, all powerful creator.
Make sure that you harness the power of all of your creativity into focused, specific actions in alignment with your outcome and continue moving forward with your actions…..one step at a time. Do whatever you can where you are with what you have.
Your emotions are extremely powerful and greatly affect your decisions, choices, actions and even your beliefs. Your behavior is highly influenced by your emotions, so make sure that you harness your feelings and emotions for your good and the good of others. Use whatever is happening around you for your benefit. Do not allow yourself to be manipulated or programmed by what other people, companies, organization or governments want.
Be clear on your truth, what is best for you and your family and take appropriate, successful action.
The MEGA Coach
Life Is A Theater – Invite Your Audience Carefully:
Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in your life. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a DISTANCE.
It is amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible and abusive, beliefs, patterns, relationships, friendships and environments.
You cannot change people, but you can change the people you are around. Your time is better spent with someone who is not a “project” or does not need to be saved. Observe the people who are close to you and with whom you spend a lot of time. Which ones uplift and inspire you? Which ones bring you down? Which ones encourage you? Which ones discourage you? Which ones are growing, positive, enthusiastic and supportive?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse? Which ones are full of drama or do not really understand, know or appreciate you? The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you – the easier it will become for you to decide who sits in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
The people you spend time with impact your quality of life, income and success. Be conscious of the people you choose to spend time with, as well as the food you feed your body, mind and spirit and the environments you work and live in.
It is wise not to share your dreams with negative people.
Who is in your front row?
This is not an encouragement to judge, criticize or belittle others. You can help the less fortunate or less awake and give to others in need without ‘hurting’ yourself. You must have compassion for all people and use discernment on how you nurture yourself and use your resources in all areas.
Have a good sense of humor and smile often.
Be a smile millionaire.
The MEGA Coach
“The Principle of Focused Attention has established the following as an absolute law; whatever we consistently hold the focus of our attention upon becomes the fabric of our future circumstances.”
Dr. Mick Hall, “Let’s End Illness Now”
Thoughts/Beliefs, energetically translated into feelings, thoughts and emotions, cause all experience. Thoughts usually have pictures, words and feelings associated with them. Your thoughts backed with definite belief become actions and attract your expected or desired reality to you. Success is an inner game.
Your “self-talk” creates your feelings, actions and outcomes. With positive “self-talk” you empower your self-esteem, self-confidence and self-image. With negative “self-talk” you destroy it. It works the same way with communication.
Words are powerful: once you say something out loud, it cannot be taken back. Choose your words with care and awareness. Your energy and body language communicate loudly, even if you never say a word. Your words can inspire, encourage, heal and prosper or they can devastate. Choose with discernment, because the subconscious does not take a joke….it takes everything in.
The Power of Acknowledgement is one of the greatest forces in the universe. Consistently acknowledge your wonderful qualities and blessings. Acknowledge your dreams and highest potential. Create an attitude of gratitude. Consistently acknowledge the people around you too. As you give, so shall you receive.
You can transform negative beliefs/thoughts and patterns – use affirmations and repeat them consistently over 21 days to create a new pattern or belief system. When using affirmations, they have to resonate with you. By creating a new belief combined with your focused, positive thoughts you transform your reality.
Make sure your words and pictures create a strong image and feeling for you. When you combine the words of an affirmation, with your strong feelings and pictures, you create a very powerful dynamic force.
Napoleon Hill, in his book “Think and Grow Rich“ discusses the power of autosuggestion. Tony Robbins takes it further with the power of “incantations” and credits a lot of his success to reprogramming his brain, belief systems and actions through words linked to powerful states and physiologies.
“Any person who does not know the power of the spoken word is behind the times.”
Florence Scovel Shinn
“I am healthy, whole and complete.”
“Today is the day of my amazing good fortune, the ground I am on is harvest ground.”
“I have a large, steady and dependable financial income now.”
“The unexpected happens, my seemingly impossible good now manifests.”
There is GOLD DUST in the air!
The MEGA Coach