Have a Magnificent Day!

Have a Magnificent Day!

We Love From Heart to Heart

posted by The MEGA Coach

Life is quite simple when you live and love from your heart.
Have you noticed that it is difficult, if not impossible to have a relationship with someone in your head?

When you feel loved is it an actual feeling or is it a thought?
Have you discovered your own strategies for feeling loved?
Have you discovered your partners strategies for feeling loved?

Don’t all relationships require love, care and encouragement to grow and thrive?
Doesn’t true communication require being present and active listening?
When you give yourself and your relationships these qualities, you are watering your victory garden.

We all need nurturing.
People are so much more sensitive then they like to admit.
Most adults are just little kids in big bodies
We are like the beautiful flowers in nature’s garden.
We need sun, water and fertile soil to grow.

A friend shared the following profound quote with me:

“We are not responding to this instant if we are judging any aspect of it.
The ego looks for what to criticize.

This always involves comparing with the past.

But love looks upon the world peacefully and accepts.

The ego searches for shortcomings and weaknesses.

Love watches for any sign of strength.

It sees how far each one has come and not how far he has to go.

How simple it is to love, and exhausting it is always to find fault,

for every time we see a fault we think something needs to be done about it.

Love knows that nothing is ever needed but more love.

It is what we all do with our hearts that affects others most deeply.

It is not the movements of our body or the words within our mind that transmits love.

We love from heart to heart.” 

                                                Gerald G. Jampolsky

                                                     “Teach Only Love

Make the most of this holiday weekend and take great care of yourself.
Water your own garden and acknowledge, recognize and appreciate the people in your life.
Create your own “Match Made in Heaven!”

Remember that on Tuesday, September 4th, Ariel & Shya Kane’s wonderful new book comes out.
Purchase it on Amazon and you can receive free bonus gifts worth $400 in value.

http://www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com/bookpromo/

Have a loving and prosperous weekend!

:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

Creating Wonderful Relationships – Key Factors

posted by The MEGA Coach

To find more keys click on      http://www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com/bookpromo/

Who is the most important person when it comes to creating wonderful relationships?
You or me?  Well, both are important.

Where does creating wonderful relationships begin?
The answer is in yourself.

The starting point is always me, because I am the source of my experience and my energy, beliefs, thoughts, feelings, words and actions create my world and results.  This is what makes life such a dashing, bold adventure.  Anything is possible and I can design my life how I choose.  Freedom of choice is powerful and with it one must also acknowledge comes total responsibility.  We are each free to create whatever life and relationships we want.

Since you are the starting point, what do you truly want in your life?  Are your relationships working?  Right now, you can answer this question easily by simply looking at your life and observing the relationships you have and their quality of communication, clarity, joy, success, love, results and fulfillment.  This is the reality you have created so far based on your choices to date.  Good news is if you like what you have you created it.  Bad news is if you do not like what you have you created it.  Excellent news is you have the power to make new and even better choices to have more wonderful results.  Also, if your life and relationships are going well, they can even get better!

The title of chapter 4 of Ariel & Shya Kane’s new book is “A Match Made In Heaven Starts With You.”  Here a little taste of this exceptional information:

“In order to build a strong foundation for relationship, you must first investigate your relationship with yourself.  If you are unkind to yourself, you will ultimately be unkind to anyone who forms a partnership with you.  When you connect with another, he or she becomes an extension of you.  Ultimately, you will pick on that person in the same manner that you pick on yourself.  Think back to disagreements you’ve had with others in your life.  Haven’t the worst fights or meanest arguments happened with those you love?  That is because Heaven on Earth begins with you,  If you are in turmoil inside, there will be no peace in your relationship.

The Three Principles of Instantaneous Transformation:

1) Anything you resist, persists, grows stronger and dominates your life and relationships.

2) No two things can occupy the same space at the same time.
You can only be doing one thing in any given moment of your life.

3) Anything you allow to be exactly as it is will complete itself and dissolve all on its own.


Life always shows up with just the appropriate information to give you the best possible experience.  Just yesterday I had a situation occur with a close family member that completely demonstrated these exact principles.  As a matter of fact, it presented me with the perfect information for this blog on creating wonderful relationships.

You can create good relationships or bad relationships and it starts with you.  We all like when things go well or in our favor and that is great.  When it comes to relationships we all have experienced both the good and the bad, but when life is challenging, that is the true test of your courage, sincerity and of your principles.

The best place to start is be kind to yourself and to be kind to others.

“Kindness is a language that we all can understand.
Even the blind can see it and the deaf can hear it.”

Mother Teresa

Ariel & Shya’s new book,How to Have A Match Made in Heaven” is coming out Sept. 4th.

Click on http://www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com/bookpromo/

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

 

Dating Wisdom that WORKS!

posted by The MEGA Coach

Tired of dating blind?

     http://www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com/bookpromo/

Many people dread the dating game or at least certain aspects of it.
What do you go through when it comes to dating?
Is it a good or positive experience?

How do you feel about talking with someone that you want to go out with?
What are your thoughts, words and actions?
How successful are your interactions, communications and results?

Here is dating wisdom that works from my friends, Ariel & Shya Kane.
The Kanes have been working with individuals, couples and teams for over twenty five years.
They also have a long-term relationship and marriage, so they qualify as “experts” in the dating game.
Most important – people around them tend to develop good relationships and marriages!

When I first met Ariel & Shya back in 1987, I was in a rocky marriage, soon to be separated and then divorced.  I could not believe this was happening to me.  How do you think I felt about getting back out there and dating?  Forget about it!  I was in one of their seminars when Ariel started talking about dating and relationships.  She said, “Why don’t you just go out on a date and have fun…..just be with the person and enjoy it.  Instead of trying to figure out what to say or do or how to be, or worrying about how you are doing or if this person likes you, is right for you….or the one…..just have fun.  Then Ariel said the magic words…..don’t make it mean anything about you or them, just have fun….you don’t have to get married or start a committed relationship…it’s just a date.”

This information was incredible for me.  I had never heard anyone recommend this.  After all, how many times have you liked someone or been out on a date with them and your mind is racing into the future and telling you what is going to happen or judging if this person is the one you will spend your whole life with, etc.  The mind plays all kinds of tricks and many people find themselves off into the future trying to figure out what is going to happen before it even arrives.  The result is that the present moment is usually lost.  Also, your mind can go back to the past and dig up old experiences where you “crashed and burned.”  Either way, you are not present in the moment when you are thinking about the past or future because you cannot be in two places at once.

Speed Dating

Really take a look at this.  What is it that you want?  Don’t you want someone to be there and actually listen to you while they are sharing themselves with you?  How rare is it when you truly feel heard or listened to?  Ariel & Shya suggest that you pay attention to the speaker from their point of view.  That you listen with your eyes and hear the tone of the person’s voice, feel what you are feeling and take in the moment fully.  This is so powerful because you become fully engaged in the moment, present and totally alive.  It is amazing the things that can result from such energy and communication.  You may actually discover yourself and the person you are with.  This is the space where magic happens!

Now success leaves clues so I used this information consistently to practice and I experienced lots of good results.  A lot of my fears starting disappearing in regards to asking someone out on a date, the date itself and so did a lot of my nervousness.  I stopped trying to do it right.  I started feeling more comfortable being with the person I was with and let go of focusing on what I was saying or doing.  This empowered me to be myself and be free…..what a concept!  My entire experience of dating changed, actually transformed and so did my results.  I was having more fun, getting to know the person I was with and even having better safe sex.  I started liking myself more too.

Over the years this helped me in all of my dating experiences, and the communication skills helped me in all of my relationships both personal and business.  Everyone wants to be heard and listened to and I continue to perfectly practice this communication wisdom to this day.  The results are a wonderful, happy 16 relationship and marriage with the love of my life, Denise.  By the way, another recommendation from the Kanes is to make a game of it and have fun with little dates.  So yesterday Denise and I had a date.  We took a tasty picnic lunch down to Little Corona Del Mar Beach and played in the ocean together and spent a glorious day enjoying each other and our love.  How do you think our evening went after such a wonderful day together?  Lots more joy and intimacy.

All of this information and much more is available in Ariel & Shya’s new book, “How to Have A Match Made in Heaven.”  It is coming out on September 4th and there is a special promotion that offers $400 in additional value,  Go to http://www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com/bookpromo/

Don’t miss this opportunity to have what you really want in relationships!

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

 

Magical, Fulfilling Relationships, Part II

posted by The MEGA Coach

Do you have the kind of relationships you want?
When you are with someone you are attracted to are you present in the moment with them?
Do you fully associate to the joy and fulfillment available?

I know it seems like a simple question, but most people are so busy thinking about things while they are with someone else.  Like, what am I going to say, do they like me, when should I make my move?  Does this sound familiar? Maybe you have your own questions or chatter.  I am amazed at how many people are texting and playing with their cell phones while with another person.

My question to you is, if you are busy thinking about anything when you are with the person you are with and maybe even attracted to, how can you be fully present with them?  Because if you are thinking, or concerned about how it’s going, then you are not really engaged in your energy to being with the other person.  Magic happens in those special, little moments that most people miss because they are busy thinking or worried about how they are doing.

That’s why this picture is a great reminder…are you in the past, present or future when you are asking someone for a date or with them spending “quality time.”  Maybe your thinking about something you have to do later.  Maybe something from earlier the day is nagging at you.  Remember, the point of greatest power is always the present moment.

So how important is it for you to be present to experience true communication, clarity and connect with another person?  In addition to being present, how important is active listening when you are with another person?  Active listening or being fully present when someone is speaking is listening from the point of view of the speaker.  It does not mean trying to finish their sentences while they are speaking, or figure out what you are going to say, or trying to come up with something cool to impress them.  Do you see how easy it is to be distracted or occupied when you are actually wanting to be with someone or make a good impression?

How can you create wonderful, meaningful, fun, passionate relationships with someone if you are not really there with them?  What do you think the other person is feeling when they sense you are not really listening to them or are not connecting with them?  Maybe they think you do not really like them?  How often do you think these factors affect the quality of your relationships and outcomes?

By the way, these patterns do not just affect romantic relationships.  Look at how they affect family interactions between parents and their children.  How about between relatives?  Doesn’t the quality of your communication affects everyone in your life, especially you.  What would happen if you were present and really communicated with your children and taught them by example?

Take a look at your business relationships – jobs, interviews, opportunities, contracts, sales, training, merger, etc. – they all can be lost or gained by the quality of being present, and true listening skills.  What about body language, tone and words?  Do you see that communication is made up of so many nuances and components that can either enhance or destroy potential outcomes and relationships?

What if you could improve the quality of your communication?
What if you could learn powerful information to be more present and become a good listener?
What if you could become a master communicator?
How would this change your life, your business and your success?

These subjects and more along with great ideas and solutions can be found in Ariel and Shya Kanes’ new book, “How to Have A Match Made in Heaven.”  The Kanes have been communication specialists for decades and have coached and consulted thousands of individuals, couples and companies.  People who work with Ariel & Shya Kane become successful and even more successful.  Their new book comes out September 4th –  find out about an exciting special promotion offered only on this day with added benefits at  http://www.matchmadeinheavenbook.com/bookpromo/

Ariel & Shya Kane live the principles in their book.  They have been teaching and sharing this information for a long time and it is field tested!  The question is not does it work, the question is will you get your hands on this key, powerful information and tools and use them in your life.  The only way to succeed is by taking action and discovering your own truth of what works best for you.  If you want more joy, more intimacy, more sex, relationships that grow deeper and more wonderful over time, then do not miss this amazing book!

This information works in all areas of communication and relationships, so when applied in a business or professional setting the results are extraordinary and lead to greater teamwork, increased productivity and profitability.

Their book is full of endorsements by very successful people in all fields.

“In an era of technological revolutions affecting how we work and how we communicate, the Kanes are creating a revolution in how we live.”

Andrew Gideon, Vice-President, TAG Online, Inc.

Remember, the most important person that you communicate with every moment is YOU!

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

 

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