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The Miracle of Elimination & Forgiveness to Create Prosperity

posted by The MEGA Coach

From “Open Your Mind to Prosperity” by Catherine Ponder:

You cleanse your mind for prosperity and attract your good by first writing out what you want to eliminate from your life.  By writing out what you want to eliminate, you open the space and create a vacuum for what you want to manifest. Just like planting a victory garden, you want to clear and weed the soil so that it is clean and fertile before planting your highest quality seeds and plants (dreams and desires).

If you want to be prospered, healed and have your prayers answered, you must clean up and clean out your life.  It is said that God (as divine law) withholds the next development until order is first established in the present situation.

After you write out your elimination list, the next step to cleanse your mind for prosperity is by practicing forgiveness. Holding grudges and negative feelings toward others, or toward yourself blocks your own prosperity.

Until you practice forgiveness, your true prosperity will not come.

When you hold resentment toward someone of something, you are bound to that person or condition by an emotional link that is stronger than steel.  The practice of forgiveness is the only way to dissolve that link and be free.

The word forgive means “to give up or let go.” Forgiveness is a pleasant inner act that leaves you at peace with yourself and others.  Forgiveness is also a constant process. It needs to be done on a regular basis with any negative feelings toward people or conditions.  Along with declaring that you forgive other people, declare that they also forgive you.  Also release situations or conditions you have been unable to resolve.

A good formula is to forgive your enemies and release your friends. Forgive the people you hate or resent.  Release the people you love. Remember that you never lose anything that still belongs to you by divine right, through the act of emotional release.  Instead, you make way for your good to manifest in grander ways than ever before.

“I now let go of worn out things, worn out conditions, and worn out relationships.  Divine order is now established and maintained in me and in my world.”

“The inflow and outflow of everything in my life is established in divine order.  I am peaceful and poised.”

“All that has offended me, I forgive. Within and without, I forgive.  Things past, things present, things future I forgive.  I forgive everything and everybody who can possibly need forgiveness in my past and present. I forgive positively everyone.  I am free and all others are free, too. All things are cleared up between us, now and forever.”

“I now release and am released from everything and everybody that are no longer part of the divine plan for my life.  Everything and everybody that are no longer part of the divine plan for my life now release me.”

“I am in right relationship with all people and all situations now.”

prosperously yours,
:) Lee
The Mega Coach

 

Self Mastery

posted by The MEGA Coach

“THE SUCCESS OF A PHYSICAL LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL, MOST WORTHY,
BUT THE PERFECTION OF YOURSELF IS A THOUSAND TIMES MORE VALUABLE
THAN ALL THE WEALTH YOU CAN ACCUMULATE ABOUT YOU.”

St. Germain

Enlightenment is possible during your lifetime.
You can be, do and have whatever is for your highest good.
Self Mastery is the true purpose for our lives on this planet.
Since you have free choice, you each choose to create your life with your own preferences.

Here is a suggestion for a powerful breakthrough.
Take out a piece of paper (a legal pad works great) and on top of the page in the center,write, “My Qualities.”  Then draw a line down the center of it.  On the left side at the top write “Negative” and on the right side at the top write “Positive.”

Start with any of your negative qualities and write each one down on the list on the left.
Observe any negative pattern, behavior or quality that you have and write them down.
Be sincere and do not judge yourself, be honest and acknowledge what is.
Be courageous and tell the truth about yourself and when you are complete review your list.
Make sure that you have everything negative about yourself listed so you are complete.

Then look and observe your positive qualities and write each one down on the list on the right.
Continue being honest and acknowledge any positive quality, behavior or pattern about yourself.
Make sure that you go total.  This is a time for absolute disclosure and for revealing everything.
It is ok to talk about yourself to yourself.  This is not a time for modesty, it is a time for total truth.
Make sure that you have everything positive about yourself listed so you are complete.

You may notice that you run out of qualities to describe you.  Give it a few minutes and you will find
that more come to mind and flow out in little streams of creativity.  For both the negative and positive qualities, allow yourself a little additional time when you think you are done and when nothing else comes you will know.

When I did this exercise, I could only come up with about 25 negative qualities.
I kept thinking there had to be more and sincerely searched and could not find any more.
I even shared them with my wife and asked her if I had missed any.
Then I wrote out the positive qualities and stopped at about 40.  I thought that I was done.
Then a whole stream opened and I came up with another 40.  Then it stopped.  I sat for a minute or two and then another stream opened and I came up with another 20, then another 30.  I was actually shocked at how many positive qualities I came up with.

Allow yourself to go through your own process.  There is no right or wrong way to do this.
This is your Self Inventory.  When you have everything listed, go over your negative qualities and ask yourself if your negative qualities have increased in intensity or decreased in intensity over the past few years, 5 years, 10 years, etc. You may be quite surprised about what you discover about even you “negative patterns.”

Then review your positive qualities and do the same thing.
Have they decreased or increased over the years in quantity and intensity?
Then look at both sides of your list and see what you see.
Acknowledge the truth about your patterns of behavior, conduct and qualities.

By having the courage to acknowledge the truth, the truth shall set you free.
You can now make clear, conscious choices about where you are and where you want to go.
These patterns of behavior determine the true quality of your life, health, relationships and true success.  They are much more important that money, material possessions or most goals and objectives you have.

It is very possible that after completing this powerful exercise you will experience a breakthrough.

Feel free to email me about it either through the comments here or directly at themegacoach@cox.net.

I would love to hear from you.

Have a Magnificent Day!

smiles,
:) Lee
The Mega Coach

 

Gradual Development

posted by The MEGA Coach

A Magnificent Lavender Rose from God’s Garden

Small steps add up to be big movements one step at a time.
Be patient and supportive of yourself and allow life to be the way it is.
Make a small change every day and see how much you have grown in 30 days.
Little things don’t mean a lot, they mean everything.”

Acknowledge even the smallest wins, acts of kindness or good things.
By acknowledging, recognizing and appreciating the small wins you gain momentum.
As you gain momentum your belief, faith, energy and enthusiasm grow too.
This raises your vibration and increases your vitality and energy.

In turn, this gives you more self-confidence and self-esteem.
Your expectations expand and you become a magnet for success.
Make sure that your self-talk or self-acknowledgement is positive, nurturing and encouraging.
If you do not take care of yourself and program your mind, who will?

Consistency, like a steady, gentle wind blowing in the same direction creates long term change.
Gradual, steady growth and progress is the best way for lasting success.

You can give your full effort and go total without a reckless or unbalanced approach.
When your effort or energy is out of control it is a clue to take a breath.
Balance, focus and consistent action creates long term growth and success.

Sometimes you need to give more to give your best.
Sometimes you need to give less with more focus and balance.
Be appropriate to the moment.

Awareness is very important to a healthy process.
Learn to observe and be present without attachment or judging.
Listen to your intuition and let it guide you.

With time, patience and consistency you are guaranteed to succeed.
Failure is impossible unless you quit.
It is not about how fast you succeed.
It is about the quality of how you succeed.

Remember to enjoy the journey……

smiles,
:) Lee
The Mega Coach

How to Create Loving & Fulfilling Relationships

posted by The MEGA Coach

A good friend called me and shared that they were in a tough situation with their girlfriend.
Although he is a good and caring person, he was not able to create and enjoy harmony, intimacy, fulfillment and true communication with his partner – even though he really wanted to.  But men and women, people have different ways to communicate.  Even with good intentions, the end results can not only be lacking but turn into a painful argument.

In speaking with him it was clear that he did not know his partners love languages and most importantly their ranking.  Because this determines true fulfillment, satisfaction and feeling loved.
He also did not know his own.

People have different styles of communicating and letting each other know that we care.
“The 5 Love Languages” is a wonderful book by Gary Chapman.

During the early days of our relationship, this book and information helped my wife and I develop a successful and loving way to communicate, share our love and feelings and transcend life’s challenges.  We were able to listen to each other in a caring way and share our feelings without hurting or attacking the other person.  We developed new strategies to communicate the difficult feelings and share them in a way that works.

Have you noticed that during the first two years of relationship you and your partner create the basic patterns that determine how you communicate and ultimately the success or failure of your relationship?  Do you see that the way in which you navigate  “the bumps” or the challenges will determine not only if you remain together long term, but if you can create intimacy, trust, unconditional love and true communication?

We each have a predominant love language.  Which is yours?
Which is your partners?  What about your parents and children?
You may respond to each of the 5 languages, but every person has a definite ranking.
You need to know both yours and your partners so that you can feel truly and deeply loved and cared for.

You see, you may want to share your love, but not effectively reach the person you care about because you are not using their top strategy that makes them feel loved.  Even if you touch them, if their top love language and strategy is not satisfied, they will not feel totally loved.  This explains why you meant well, said or did nice things, but the end result was not what you hoped for.


Here are the 5 Love Languages:

 

Words of Affirmation: Words matter. This person treasures hearing, “I love you.” Honest compliments and praise mean a great deal, and insults or harsh words are taken to heart.

 

Quality Time: This person wants your undivided attention. The gift of your time is worth more than any material present you could give.

 

Receiving Gifts: From trinkets and flowers to diamond rings and season tickets, this person feels loved when you present them with a token of your affection.

 

Physical Touch: A gentle hand on the shoulder, a peck on the cheek, a warm embrace or simply sitting beside this person makes them feel loved.

 

Acts of Service: Doing household chores or helping out in the home office is, to this person, the equivalent of saying, “I adore you.”


Discover your love language, your partners and the members of your family.

Share them and talk with each other about how you each feel and what you each want in your relationship together.  Be specific and make sure you determine the true ranking and preference order.

Most importantly, stay present in the moment.  Pay attention and observe.  Be sincerely interested.  This allows you to truly acknowledge each other and create harmony, unconditional love and intimacy.  After all, isn’t the true purpose for relationship to give and receive unconditional love?

blessings,
:) Lee
The Mega Coach

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