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What is Your Love Language?

posted by The MEGA Coach

Love

Do you feel loved and satisfied in your relationships?  Do you experience joy, happiness and fulfillment now?  Do you want the most important people in your life to feel nurtured and loved?

There are five main love languages.  If your primary love strategy is not satisfied, you cannot feel totally loved. If your primary love strategy is not satisfied, you cannot feel totally loved.  You may intellectually know your partner loves and cares for you, but that is different than feeling it and being physically and emotionally satisfied.  Do you know your own primary love language?

How important is it for you to feel totally loved?  How important is it for your partner to feel totally loved?  What would happen to your relationships and the quality of your life if yours lives if you and your partner felt totally loved?    

People have different styles of communicating and letting each other know that we care.
“The 5 Love Languages” is a wonderful book by Gary Chapman.

 

Here are the 5 Love Languages:

Words of Affirmation: Words matter. This person treasures hearing, “I love you.” Honest compliments and praise mean a great deal, and insults or harsh words are taken to heart.

 

Quality Time: This person wants your undivided attention. The gift of your time is worth more than any material present you could give.

 

Receiving Gifts: From trinkets and flowers to diamond rings and season tickets, this person feels loved when you present them with a token of your affection.

 

Physical Touch: A gentle hand on the shoulder, a peck on the cheek, a warm embrace or simply sitting beside this person makes them feel loved.

 

Acts of Service: Doing household chores or helping out in the home office is, to this person, the equivalent of saying, “I adore you.”


People have different strategies to communicate and feel certain feelings.  A person is wired a certain way and if you want to share your love with them and want them to feel totally loved than you need to discover their love strategy and effectively communicate with them.

You do this unconsciously without even knowing it.  However, you may not be using a person’s primary strategy, so although they feel good, until you satisfy their primary strategy they will not feel fulfilled.

Have fun!

smiles,
:) Lee
The MEGA Coach

 

 

 



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