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Are You as Over Politics As I Am?

I hate politics. I feel assaulted every time a political ad comes on the air. Name calling, accusations, a total disregard for truth.. I could go on but you are experiencing it too! It’s so disgusting that I am clicking off the channel when ANY political ad comes on TV.

In my perfect world, politicians would tell us their vision, their plan and how they will accomplish such. Then, the pundits and commentators would remain silent. OK, maybe not silent but accurately summarize what was said. I think they used to call that reporting!

I don’t need people on TV telling me how to think. I don’t need them to interpret what I just heard. And I certainly don’t need them to engage in rude behavior and bias and expect me to find that interesting.

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I know, I’m dreaming.

But the constant modeling of anger, intolerance, hate towards those who don’t agree with you, name-calling and so on can’t be good for any of us. What does it teach us about relationships?

Let’s see. When you don’t agree, attack? When you don’t understand a person’s point of view, call him a name? Make fun of those who believe differently. And ridicule moral and religious beliefs. Call people with standards phobic.

If any of you are taking notes from these political “discussions”, please throw your notes away. Class over. This is dysfunction on display! It’s like those first 20 minutes of the movie, Saving Private Ryan— I sat in the theatre, head buried in my husband’s side, quietly pleading, “Please make it stop. It’s too much. I can’t take it!”

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I can’t take it. If you feel passionately about this election, I am glad. I am passionate about my vote. But I am not going to name call, put down, accuse you of hate, racism and all the other crazy things we hear. I’m not going there. If you want a civil conversation on issues, I’m all for it. But what we see in media is embarrassing. It’s like watching a bunch of mean kids. And I don’t find mean kids entertaining or funny.

 

 

  • http://Politicalchoices Lillian

    What you say is true but as Christians my opinion is we should vote on principals. Such as abortion, I would never ever vote for anyone pro-choice. Yes, women have a choice and your belief is based on your God given right to do so. Howeve;r I disagree, it’s fine if your choice concerns only you but dosen’t anyone consider the babies choice. In my opinion it’s the worst form of child abuse, it’s not allowing a fetas,baby, anything you want to call it but it is a fact that you are taking away someone their God given right to life endowed by his/her creater. I do think there are some rare cases, but not when it comes to inconvenence, gender idenity, or when women use it for birth control or late term abortion. I am sure that we break the heart of God when we approve of such a horrific CHOICE!

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