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Pope to youth: “Learn to love, truly to love, to learn the art of real love”

The pope had some wise things to say to young people from Catholic Action during a question and answer session Saturday:

After a question from a young woman of Catholic Action, Benedict XVI responded, “It is very important, I would say fundamental, to learn to love, truly to love, to learn the art of real love!”

He continued: “In adolescence we stop before the mirror and we notice that we are changing. But if you continue to look at yourself, you will never grow up!

“You grow up when you do no longer let the mirror be the only truth about you but when you let your friends tell you.

“You will grow up if you are able to make your life a gift to others, not to seek yourselves, but to give yourselves to others: this is the school of love.”


The Pope added, “This love, however, must bring you into that ‘more’ that today shouts to everyone: ‘There is more!'”

He recalled, “I too, in my youth wanted something more than what the society and the mentality of the time presented to me.”

“I wanted to breathe pure air,” the Pontiff said. “Above all I desired a beautiful and good world, like our God, the Father of Jesus, wanted for everyone.”

“And I understood more and more that the world becomes beautiful and good if one knows this will of God and if the world corresponds to this will of God,” he added, “which is the true light, beauty, love that gives the world meaning.”

“You cannot and must not adapt yourselves to a love reduced to a commodity to be consumed without respect for oneself or for others, incapable of chastity and purity,” the Holy Father urged. “This is not freedom.”

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Mr. Incredible, in the Name of Jesus Who defeated the works of the Devil!

posted October 31, 2010 at 11:33 pm


Define “love,” as the Pope should mean it – that is, biblically.

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(Jesus the Christ:)

posted November 1, 2010 at 6:10 am

Master teacher,master carpenter and reported to be the son of God.
Not recorded to have ever written anything with no one on eath having any idea as to what he may have looked like>

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Martin Plamondon

posted November 1, 2010 at 1:05 pm

I was a firm Catholic but the church has allowed Drunks Councel young poeople and then my big issue. Yes i know first hand that parish priests go unpunished for molesting young boys and the Pope preaches to love. I think he is on the wrong track and until they are punished and allowed to continue i will never step foot in a catholic church again and will tell others.
Thanks you

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Mr. Incredible, in the Name of Jesus, the ONLY Way to the Father!

posted November 2, 2010 at 6:31 am


==Master teacher,master carpenter and reported to be the son [sic] of God.==
Mr. Incredible says:
Yes, “reported” by the Word of God!
==Not recorded to have ever written anything… ==
Mr. Incredible says:
==… with no one on eath [sic] having any idea as to what he may have looked like>=
Mr. Incredible says:

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