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The Greatest Secret Of All

Is there anyone you know (yourself included) who would not want to experience greater abundance in all areas of their lives? A deceptively simple book beckoned me recently into an exploration of that desire.  Called “The Greatest Seret of All”, it was penned by Marc Allen; who along with Shakti Gawain (best known for her book “Creative Visualization”),  co-founded New World Library.

What immediately grabbed my attention was the story Marc shared of the resistance he had to attracting abundance.  His thoughts were hammering away at him, especially those of a self deprecating nature. He had bought into the beliefs about money being evil and that he was a loser since he had what he thought of us “the opposite of the Midas Touch”.

What turned things around for him, was learning from Masters of attraction such as Jesus, Gandhi and Buddha,as well as spiritual texts such as The Bhagavad Gita. He drank in a book written by Lenedra J. Carroll called “The Architecture of All Abundance” . Most importantly, he practiced daily what he was learning.

The powerful spiritual invocation:

“Ask and you shall receive. Seek and you will find.”  was a guide for Marc along his journey from feeling like a “loser with money”, to a being a “magician with money.”

In The Greatest Secret, Marc offers portable tools to use immediately, which include affirmations, creating an image of his ideal life, coming up with a goal list and following through with action steps.

 My own journey from living in scarcity (or as my friend Alan Cohen calls it::  scare-city) to joyfully doing an ‘a-bun-dance’, came from growing up in a middle class-blue collar home where there was always enough, but fear lurking around corner that there might not be, so my father, a devoted to his family workaholic, had what we called ‘crazy hours’ as a milk man and then bus driver.  I learned from a Master there myself, since my own working hours resemble his…full tiime job in a hospital and then a whole bunch of consulting work that at some points equals 80 hours a week…YIKES!  all in an effort to insure financial security. Sometimes have felt like a hamster on a wheel…getting nowhere fast. Then I began to take a closer look at my ideas about money. In my extended family, the wealthier ones were men in mainstream business.  There were no role models for independently wealthy women who were creative right brain types like me. I decided that I would break the mold.  For years, I have been writing the very things that Marc speaks of. I have been growing a new attitude. I have been asking for what my work is worth, as a coach I had worked with a few years ago encouraged me:  “without stuttering.”  I have come to KNOW that there is nothing unspiritual about money and that even though I am a minister and do spiritual work, my creditors expect me to pay them the same as they would if I were in any other profession.

As a result, more opportunities are showing up and I willingly embrace them. So, I invite you to explore your own perceptions about abundance (not just the green stuff), but in all aspects of your wondrous life.






Rainbow Rabbi

Rabbi Rayzel Raphael is a gloriously vibrant work of art; as colorful as the painted-on -silk tallit she designs in rainbow array.  A true Renaissance Woman, Rayzel teaches, leads services, runs an organization, records and performs music.


How do you live your bliss?

Through music and art, rituals and women’s circles. Music and art take me out of my mundane regularity of life- errands, computer, carpool, work- and elevate my spirit to another realm.

What led you to the spiritual path you are on, personally and professionally?

It was a gradual unfolding of the path, and responding to the call to serve my people. I grew up in Tennessee in a Conservative Jewish family. My grandfather was an Orthodox rabbi and my family was pretty traditional- keeping the Sabbath, going to synagogue, keeping kosher. I began as undergraduate major in Jewish studies at Indiana University. I went to graduate school at Brandeis in contemporary Jewish studies, spent a year studying in yeshiva in Israel and then another year studying women of the bible at Hebrew University – (My first cd Bible Babes came out of that research )

Bible Babes Abeltin’ is my collection of strong songs of Jewish women from scriptures. I use music to tell stories and educate. To me music is “the spoon full of sugar that helps the medicine of lessons go down” -it makes learning fun.

I worked at Hillel in Toronto Canada, I was the executive director of Jewish Student Federation and on campus organization at York University that helps Jewish students stay connected to their heritage, through social, cultural educational and religious activities. Then I couldn’t resist the call anymore to come to Reb school in the Philadelphia area. (Reconstructionist Rabbinical College.) Reconstructionist Judaism sees it as an evolving religious civilization, not static or frozen in ancient time- always subject to interpretation in new ways. It’s the Reconstructionist philosophy that gives me license to create and transform liturgy.

I know that you perform solo and in collaboration with a group of other talented women, called Miraj. What is the nature of the music you offer?

We write and arrange our own liturgical, ritual, and educational songs – with a specialty in women of the Bible. We met in rabbinical school in Hebrew grammar the first year and started singing to learn the lessons, we sounded pretty good together it went from there- we’ve been together 15 years- Rabbi Margot Stein, Juliet Spitzer and myself- we’ve had others sing with us as well through the years, but we’re the core. A lot of lunches and laughter.

How does music allow you to express your heart and soul?

I can sing about and through the pains- my own which I can also assume at some level I sing for others who carry what I do – we all carry pain, can I transform it through music? It’s one of my goals. I can educate about the Jewish tradition. I can use my poetic skills to translate ancient prayers into modern language and make it meaningful/relevant today.


Shabbat Unplugged was the way that I first met you. Can you speak about that?

I created Shabbat Unplugged when I was Rabbi at Leyv Ha-ir in center city – it was originally called Rock and Roll Shabbat. I invited my Reb school friends to “do something creative” and I marketed it to my Hillel students. We were mobbed, we then got a grant from the Jewish federation to do it in area synagogues- we were really busy for years. Now we get a couple of gigs a year but its always a joy. We created a lot of new music.

My album Friday Night Revived contains a completely transformed Hebrew- English Friday night service – a lot from that era my partners there were Rabbi Shawn Zevit, Rabbi Micah Becker Klein, Rabbi Margot Stein and Juliet Spitzer.

I also developed a project called Sidewalk Shabbat that took this music to the streets and met Judah Prince and Yofiah Deikman. All of my singing partners have their own cds as well.

What is InterFaithways?

It is a non profit organization : an interfaith family support network of Greater Philly. I started it under Jewish Family Services. We are now independent with Leonard Wassermans & Rubenstein Family Foundations and others’ support.  I’m the Rabbinic Director, Gari Weilbacher is the Managing Director we have two missions to :

Welcome interfaith families and to make the community welcoming to them.

InterFaithways has been my vehicle for service to my community. As the rates of intermarriage arises- its almost 50% .The interfaith families represent a huge opportunity for the Jewish community to grow their numbers AND transform their culture to be welcoming. We have such fear encoded in our DNA from years of oppression and persecution. Welcoming interfaith families gives us the opportunity to conquer fear and embrace love.

I invite couples in to my home for Shabbat to give them a sense of Jewish family life, we also sponsor a Movie Night and Interfaith family weekend with the area’s 50 synagogues.

How do angels blend with the work that you do since most mainstream Jews were not taught much about angelic presence?

Angels are my guides. I did a paper on them in Reb school and I’ve called upon them for support and guidance ever since. I’m one of their PR agents and love to sing and teach about them. I call on them for help as well.


My friend Monique Darling is a font of juicy wisdom. Lately, she has been plumbing the depths of her sweet soul and what has emerged has been nothing short of genius. Here is a recent posting she created for facebook.

“Last night I was asked how I am truly present with another. Here’s my recipe: Eyes connect, smile, speak, touch, feel the soul standing before you, remember the timeless bond you 2 have, listen to what they have to say, see them as they are right now, without expectation, share your own magnificence at 110%, & witness the divine reflection  in this amazing being whom you have but this moment of true communion. Repeat.”


How do you truly commune with people in your life?

Are you present with them or just there in body while your mind is a million miles away or thinking about the bills to pay or dishes to do? 

Do the people closest to you feel valued?

Do you recognize your own value, your own maginficence?

Imagine how your relationships would change if you lived in this way.




To Your Heart’s Content

The day dawns. Open your eyes and drink in the beauty that surrounds you.  Allow the first thought that enters your mind upon awakening to be:  “How can I live to my heart’s content?”  Nourish that sweet heart of yours with loving friends and family, adventurous experiences, colorfuly creativity, healthy foods, fresh air, exercise.  Drop habits that no longer serve you. Know that your thoughts are creative and contribute to the well being of your physiological heart as well as the emotional ‘heart center’ and the energetic heart chakra known in Sanskrit as ‘anahata’ or the ‘unstruck note’.

Learn about the HeartMath System ®, which,according to their website “entails practical, heart-based tools and technologies that people of all ages and walks of life can use to enhance health, performance and well-being.”

The Institute For HeartMath (IMH) was founded by Doc Childre who discovered that the methods which are part and parcel of HeartMath are transformative, stress reducing, strenghthening and resilience building.

Much of the focus is on heart based living, which, according to Doc Childre, “helps you learn to live in the now, bringing more of your real self into each moment. Becoming more of who you really are releases inner security, allowing you to relate to life with increased hope and confidence. Increased fulfillment is the result of this process.”

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