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Spirit Singer

I’m not sure when New Thought singer-songwriter Lew Doty entered my life since it seems I have always known him.  His music inspires me to live in ‘God consciousness’. It accompanies me in the car and in my office; soothing my soul and tickling me in ways that a select few others do.  He and wife Susan are what I think of as a ‘spiritual power couple’ who live the message of love in their personal lives and offer it in the form of support in our community.  They are also infinitely huggable people who; although I don’t see them as often as I would like, offer warm welcome when I do.  They are part of Center For Conscious Living (CCL) in Moorestown, NJ and Joyful Gathering in Berlin, NJ

How do you live your bliss?

By breathing.  I live a charmed, blissful life.  I tell the Universe each day how beautiful it is, and it responds in kind.

 

What beckoned you to music?

The music beckons me.  I have no choice in the matter.  There is ALWAYS a song in my head, a lyric, a passage, a chord change.  It is the way I think.

 

Yours seems to be a blending of the worldly and spiritual . . . sometimes a bit edgy/funny.  How do you merge them so beautifully?

I am a spiritual being with a sense of humor.  I take NOTHING so seriously as not to be able to joke about it or find the humor in it.  During the worst of times in the course of human history, someone said something that someone else found hysterically funny.  Hitler and Stalin walk into a bar . . .  

One of my favorite movies ever is Joe vs. the Volcano (I know it’s one of your favorites as well).  Few people get how incredibly deep the movie is.  Everything is sacred/spiritual and incredibly stupid/funny at the same time.

 

What inspires your song writing?

Everything.  Just as the physicists and the mystics indicate (the mystics had the physicists beat by about 5000 years, however), it all comes from NOTHING, silence, absolute stillness.  But here is a short list:

·        Long conversations with the love of my life

·        Rehearsing with my Angels

·        Just sitting at my place at the lake in silence and listening to the lake itself and the trees, and the birds, and I get filled with the ONE

·        Reading a passage in a book (any book) and having it stir me

·        Long drives alone

·        Post-meditation epiphanies

The Universe is constantly bombarding all of us with inspiration.  We just have to be aware and accepting of it.

 

Can you describe your view on New Thought consciousness since it informs your musical offerings?

I love New Thought because it is based on Principal and Law.   No rules, just law.  The Universe, God, the One, does not favor any one individual.  The Universe is a reflection of what is inside you.  It’s that simple.  I love simple.

 

What is your perception of the One in All?

It took me a long time to really get it.  When you’re in the middle of a (seemingly) bad experience, it’s hard to pull up to 40,000 feet and see it from that perspective.  Now take that and multiply it by infinity.  There is only ONE thing going on here.  Universe.  Now.  Squirrels, trees, mountain, ocean, solar system, galaxy–all one thing.  You, me, Osama Bin Laden, and tube worms–all one thing.  I go way beyond most New Thought thinkers and see everything as one.  So many people see and experience a homo-centric world and universe.  It’s hard not to within this culture.  The Universe wants Life to live, not human life, but all life.  And the sad thing is that if we do not change our world view, we will be retired early as a life form in this universe.  Daniel Quinn said, “You are captives of a civilizational system that more or less compels you to go on destroying the world in order for you to live.”

 

Sorry.  I will now step down from my soap box . . .

 

Do you have a favorite song?  Or is that like asking which child you love best?

Yes.  I have a favorite song.  The ‘new’ one.  =>)

 

How do we take thought and bring it into being?

Keep thinking the same thing over and over and it cannot not manifest.  That is Law.  It’s that simple.  I love simple.

 

What message(s) do you want your Being in the world to convey?

Live your life as YOU.  Lighten up.  Have fun.  Question everything.  See the utter beauty that the Universe brings to you each and every moment and you will live a blessed life.

 

www.lewdoty.com

www.newthoughtccl.org 

www.joyfulgathering.org

Undercover Angel

When my now 23 year old son was 14, he told me “Mom, I’m an undercover angel sent to teach you patience.”  I smiled/grimaced at that statement, since I knew it was true.  Nine years later, he’s still teaching and I’m still learning. 

The life lessons that often come fast and furious, courtesy of a universe that only has my highest good in mind, are sometimes delivered on the ‘wings’ of such angels. “Wouldn’t it be lovely if our experiences were only fun and joyous, colorful and easy?”, I ask myself.  “But then”, the inner dialog continues, “you wouldn’t have developed the emotional and spiritual muscles that keep you healthy and offer you fodder for your writing.”  How cool is that?  Is it worth the trade-off?  I suppose so. 

One of my hats is as a social worker in a psychiatric hospital. Daily, I remind my patients, some who want to be in the hospital for the solace, support, safety and stability that the setting offers and others who are quite vocally opposed to being there,  “This is graduate school and you are the curriculum. Learn as much about yourself and who the man or woman in the mirror truly is, as possible. Be a life long learner. There are no grades, no pass-fail.” Some of them smile with understanding and acceptance of what I have said and others look at me as if I am speaking gibberish. Huh?

When I gaze backward at the life lessons that have come my way, I wonder what I have traded for such wisdom.  Mostly fear, self doubt and sometimes self loathing. Times when I am consciously aware of my choices, I learn a great deal about what is possible for me and those I serve as teacher, writer, healer. First, though, I need to follow the principle “Healer, heal thyself.”

What undercover angels hover about you?  What are you willing to learn from them?

As Is

I am dipping into the well of wisdom from the amazing Courtney A. Walsh once again for today’s Bliss Blog since it ties in with what I have been coming smack dab up against lately.

“The universe doesn’t want/wish/desire/need us to be better/faster/stronger/richer/thinner/taller funnier or smarter. In love’s eyes, we’re perfect always. In fear’s eyes, we’re never having/doing/being enough. Adjust your vision. See mirrors as a reflective tool; not an enemy taunting us towards constant improvement. Love life gently & fully into the now”.~CAW

Many years ago, the words you are about to read poured forth from me in response to a struggle I was facing after my husband died and I was offered the opportunity from the universe to recreate my life.

 

“When my Spirit is in need of a lift, I call my friend Murray Needleman. Seems like I have known him forever; but it’s more like close to half my life. I heard his voice before I actually met him live and in person. You see, once upon a time, Murray, a Clinical Psychologist, was a radio talk show host on Philadelphia station WWDB. He had a call-in show on Friday nights and people would pour the contents of their hearts out for Murray to help them sort through and patch back together. In soothing tones, with a strong Philadelphia accent, he would challenge their worn out beliefs and assist them in finding their own answers. He became a friend of ours when my husband Michael and I were publishers of Visions and we sponsored him as a speaker at our office. I know it’s a platitude, but to know Murray is to love him. He always senses when to call me or if I call him, he always says the same thing: “I was just thinking about you, dear heart.” This time, I needed an emotional tune up, precipitated by the ordeal with the loss of voice and the accompanying fears, so I called Murray to schedule an appointment with him. A few days later, I found myself in Murray’s eclectic office, greeted with a warm, welcoming hug. My friend contains multitudes…part Buddha; physically and spiritually, part playful imp who loves to make waves and then help people ride them, part colorful cosmic clown, part compassionate listener (one of the best I know) and part dedicated therapist for the past 40 some years, with an encyclopedic knowledge of human behavior. Also know that Murray is his own man when it comes to fashion. Year round, his feet are shod in Birkenstocks sans socks. He generally wears a tropical style shirt. His crowning glory these days is snowy linen white, that encircles a face with angelic eyes that peer out behind many years of laugh lines. Ushered into the waiting room and offered ginger tea (the strongest I have ever had) and clementines, I gazed at the walls which were embellished with photos that his wife Anne had taken of the Grand Canyon, a poster of Albert Einstein, another that gave instructions for “How To Launch A Dream”, a sign that encourages the reader to “Embrace The Weirdness” and another that says “When you don’t understand, the world is as it is. When you understand, the world is as it is.” On the wall near his office was a familiar sight; the framed cover of Visions Magazine that featured the grinning face of Murray circa 1988. He still had it!


Entering his inner sanctum, I beheld the image of one of my spiritual teachers; Ram Dass; a poster from the original Woodstock concert in all its psychedelic glory, several photos of Murray with one of his teachers; Muktananda, others of Murray and his grandchildren and still another of Murray wearing a dashiki, standing in front of Cinderella’s castle with Anne and their two young children back in the 1970’s. On his desk were a few Buddha’s, Yoda, a crystal, a big toothy grinning smile on a spring and a sign that read “I only have ears for you.” On the inside of his door was an Alex Grey poster and on another door, a sign proclaiming the virtues of “Paradox and Surprise” which is really what life is about.


Settling down into a comfy chair within arm’s length proximity of Murray; the better to allow him to reach out with physical support, the session began. In the nearly two hours we spent together; we left no stone unturned. His on-target observations had me laughing and crying alternately and then simultaneously. Good thing he had lots of tissues. Three of the biggest represented demons that I have long carried. Some of it involved the persona that I present vs. who I really am. He reminded me that I need not do anything to be loved, that the magic isn’t in being the writer-speaker-clown-healer-networker. “You’re the magic.”, he emphatically told me. All that fluff isn’t necessary.” Then as we explored relationship issues, he said “I want to you say these words… Come to me, I won’t kill you.” Gulp and then sobs…for so long, on some level, I believed that although I hadn’t killed my husband (the Hep C virus that had ravaged his body and ultimately took his life was within him long before we met), I couldn’t heal him either. There wasn’t enough love in the world to do that, since I knew on some level that 48 years was all he had signed up for. My fear on an unconscious level was that I would love again and the person would die. No wonder I have kept The One at bay! Lastly, he asked me, ” Can you accept someone in your life right now, as is? As you are, without changing anything in your situation or yourself? Are you ready for that?” Another deep breath and big swallow. At that point, the familiar (from last week) fifth chakra closing/choking sensation kicked in and a sharp pain in my left ear ensued. When I told Murray about these unpleasant sensations, he grinned, knowing that we had hit a home run on that one. “Who are you if you come as you are?” he queried. “Just average, nothing special.”, I replied sadly. He assured me again, that the magic wasn’t going anywhere. He invited me to end the contract with Michael; the one that spoke of pain and loss. He encouraged me to end the contract with my 18 year old son Adam; the one that dictated a commitment to take care of him beyond what was reasonable. He instructed me to write a contract with myself. And so I am doing all three simultaneously. Today at work, I posted a two word sign on my office wall that says quite simply: ” AS IS”.


As I am integrating all of this today, I express deep gratitude to my dear friend Murray for loving me, as I am learning to love myself: “as is”.

 

 

 

Re-reading the insights of the six year younger Edie, tears are flowing, since not much has changed in terms of the fears that haunt me. Yes, I have more resilience, more aha moments that have me grinning with recognition of what is so. I have gathered around me, kindred souls who reflect Murray’s beliefs about who I am and yet, sometimes those doubt monsters come roaring back at me. And so it seems, I am a work in progress.

 

Are you willing to (at least consider) accepting yourself  ‘as is’?  Let’s take this voyage together.

New Year Of The Trees

Tu B’Shevat, the 15th of Shevat on the Jewish calendar — celebrated this year on Thursday, February 8, 2012 — is the day that marks the beginning of a “New Year for Trees.” Some people refer to it as “Jewish Arbor Day”. Trees are valued in the Jewish tradition.  To honor a milestone or memorialize someone who has died, trees are often planted in Israel in that person’s name. The Tree of Life (Etz haChayim in Hebrew) is a potent symbol in Kabbalistic Judaism.

 

In anticipation of the holiday, at Pebble Hill Church; an interfaith community in Doylestown, PA of which I have been a part since 1984, my friend Gary Schoenberg led the service entitled Cultivating A Miracle Mindset. Gary guided us, through story and song, ritual and sharing as we learned about Tu B’Shevat.  We enjoyed various fruits for the purpose of  honoring  the Four Worlds. He incorporated concepts from A Tu b’shevat Seder created by The Jewish Women’s Center of Pittsburgh, Inc.

1.  Assiyah, or Action, the physical world around us. 
2.
Yetzirah
, or Formation, the world of feelings and emotions. 
3. B’riyah
, or Creation, the world of knowing, and the mind. 
4. 
Atzilut, or Emanation, the world of spirituality.

 

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    For Assiyah (earth, action), we eat nuts and fruits with a tough skin to remind us of the protection the earth gives.

  • Through this act we acknowledge that

  • we need protection in life, both physical and emotional.
  • For Yetzirah (heart, formation), we eat fruits with a tough inner core.

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  • Through this act we acknowledge the need to fortify our hearts. With a

  • strong heart and a pure vision, our lives grow richer and deeper.

    Fruits of this group, which are edible on the outside with a hard inner pit include: dates, olives, cherries, peaches and avocados.

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  • For B’riyah (air, mind, creation), we eat fruits that are completely edible. In this world, where God’s protection is close at hand, we can let go of all barriers and try on freedom. As co-creators with God, each of our thoughts becomes action.

    Fruits in this group include: figs, carob, grapes, berries, apples and pears.

     

  • Rabbi Chiyya ben Abba said in the name of Rabbi Yochanan: “Whoever keeps the fig tree shall eat of its fruit. The fruit of the fig tree does not ripen all at once. The more one searches, the more figs one finds in it. So it is with the words of the Torah. The more one studies them, the more relish one finds in them.”

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  • The world of Atzilut (fire, spirit) is the ethereal world of emanation. It is a purely spiritual idea, and thus, we do not eat any fruit for this world.

    There’s a fire alive, within every living cell of every being. 

  • The carbons we eat burn in the presence of 
    the oxygen we breath, giving us the energy to be.
     
    This spark of light is our connection to the Divine.

     

  • Just as the natural world goes through changes to achieve its full potential, we also need to change so that we can be free to grow. In doing so, we will become strong like healthy trees, with solid roots in the ground and our arms open to the love that is all around us.

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    As I sat, surrounded by kindred spirits, engaged in miracle making of their own; after all, each breath, each heartbeat is a miracle, I wondered what transformation was taking place within me that I might not even be aware of at that moment.  What seeds were being planted with each thought that would someday come to fruition?   Were there areas in my life in which I needed to develop a tough inner core to sustain the sweet fruit on the outside?   Can I be truly available to whatever life brings and to the people I encounter, as the fruits described above that are completely edible? And can I fully trust that which I can not always see, hear, feel and touch, knowing that creation is always happening and ever evolving?

     

    From an environmental perspective, I invite you to consider how you and I and all life are intertwined, like the vines and leaves that blossom and grow and our shared consciousness can help to sustain our beautiful planet.

     

    Lo Yisa Goy by Libana

     

    Public Domain (Isaiah 2:4)

    Lo yisa goy el goy cherev
    V’lo yilm’ du od milchama! (4x)

    And every (one) man ‘neath
    his vine and figtree
    Shall live in peace and unafraid. (2x)
    And into plowshares turn their swords,
    Nations shall learn war no more! (2x)

     

    http://youtu.be/cnHhy6aQJXQ

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