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Are You Highly Sensitive?

posted by Beyond Blue

In my video post I mentioned Elaine Aron’s book, “The Highly Sensitive Person.” I advise all depressives to read it, because most of you are going to be highly sensitive (which is not a bad thing at all). I was explaining to this older man I met in a coffee shop about how I get frazzled so easily, and distracted, and that I really needed to be outside for an hour or more a day or else I go, well, crazy.

He told me about this book, and it’s been so helpful in moments like Toys-R-Us, when I realize that I’m just over-aroused (not sexually–I don’t think that’s possible on Zoloft), and I just need to dial it down a bit.

Here is a test to determine whether or not you are highly sensitive.

Answer each question according to the way you feel. Answer true if it is at least somewhat true for you. Answer false if it is not very true or not at all true for you.

I seem to be aware of subtleties in my environment.

Other people’s moods affect me.

I tend to be very sensitive to pain.

I find myself needing to withdraw during busy days, into bed or into a darkened room or any place where I can have some privacy and relief from stimulation.

I’m particularly sensitive to the effects of caffeine.

I am easily overwhelmed by things like bright lights, strong smells, coarse fabrics, or sirens close by.

I have a rich, complex inner life.

I am made uncomfortable by loud noises.

I am deeply moved by the arts of music.

I am conscientious.

I startle easily.

I get rattled when I have a lot to do in a short amount of time.

When people are uncomfortable in a physical environment I tend to know what needs to be done to make it more comfortable (like changing the lighting or the seating).

I am annoyed when people try to get me to do too many things at once.

I try hard to avoid making mistakes or forgetting things.

I make it a point to avoid violent movies and TV shows.

I become unpleasantly aroused when a lot of going on around me.

Being very hungry creates a strong reaction in me, disrupting my concentration or mood.

Changes in my life shake me up.

I notice and enjoy delicate or fine scents, tastes, sounds, works of art.

I make it a high priority to arrange my life to avoid upsetting or overwhelming situations.

When I must compete or be observed while performing a task, I become so nervous or shaky that I do much worse than I would otherwise.

When I was a child, my parents or teachers seemed to see me as sensitive or shy.

Scoring Yourself: If you answered true to twelve or more of the questions, you’re probably highly sensitive.

But frankly, no psychological test is so accurate that you should base your life on it. If only one or two questions are true of you but they are extremely true, you might also be justified in calling yourself highly sensitive.

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kathy

posted November 16, 2012 at 7:10 am


wonderful post. I am going to show it to my grandchild and forward it to my kids… I think we are a crazy family of sensitives…



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cassa

posted November 16, 2012 at 11:27 am


If I answer ‘yes’ to the questions that are true for me 100% of the time, all but four of them apply. If I answer ‘yes’ to those that are true for me at least some of the time, all but one apply.

Yeah, I think that makes me highly sensitive.



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pooja

posted November 16, 2012 at 1:21 pm


hi..

Most of the statements felt very true to my sense of being. I have considered and some people have pointed out that I am a sensitive person. However i have mostly seen it as a vulnerability and less as a strength.

I guess it can be both.



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JJ

posted November 17, 2012 at 1:18 am


Therese thank you for all that you put here, you are an amazing human being.



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