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On Black Friday: 7 Stress Stoppers

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You all may be braver than I. I do not step foot into the mall from Halloween to New Years. If I do, I usually end up locking myself in a Starbucks bathroom to finish a meltdown. So I thought these tips–“7 Ways to Let Stress Out”–from  Vitality magazine may come in handy. Here they are.

 

1. Get regular exercise.

People who exercise for 20 or 30 minutes at least 3 times a week can significantly reduce their stress, says the American Council on Exercise. Any form of physical activity works, including walking, cycling, running or playing a team sport, such as soccer or basketball, and even typing really fast at your computer (just kidding).

2. Be mindful of the present.

Mindfulness is the practice of being fully engaged in the present moment. Instead of worrying about the future or dwelling on the past, mindfulness pays attention to what’s happening right now. Sit in a relaxed position and clear your mind. Focus on your breathing, a word or a sound, such as “oommm,” [or even "idiot, idiot, he's an idiot"], for 10 to 20 minutes. It’s helpful to have silence and privacy, but more skilled meditators can do it anywhere. Gently return to your breathing if your attention is drawn to something else. [They wrote the last sentence for me.]

3. Take a deep breath.

This technique is used in many relaxation practices, including yoga, meditation and visualization. Deep breathing involves not only the lungs, but also the abdomen and diaphragm. To perform it, breathe in deeply and slowly to a count of 8, holding your breath with your abdomen extended. Slowly exhale to a count of 8; then repeat for 10 minutes.

4. Pray.

[I was flabbergasted to find this suggestion. Yah! Finally, we can speak of the spiritual in mainstream media!] Saying the rosary, repeating a prayer or chanting a mantra can lower stress and help you feel clam and protected.

5. Live a healthy lifestyle.

Take good care of yourself by getting enough sleep; eating a healthy diet; avoiding excess caffeine, alcohol and tobacco; and not abusing drugs.

6. Practice hatha yoga.

This yoga practice involves stretching and forming different poses while keeping breathing slow and controlled. Yoga helps bring a relaxed state into your daily life. Injuries can occur if yoga is done incorrectly, so it’s best to learn by attentiong classes with a qualified yoga teacher.

7. Go to your happy place.

[Ha! One of my own here!] Guided imagery or visualization involves imaging a scene in which you feel free of tension and stress. Close your eyes and imagine your special place, such as a beach, favorite vacation spot or whatever you like. Picture the scene as clearly as you can, including what you can see, hear, smell and feel.



  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment cb

    So, here’s my remedy for Black Friday — stores shouldn’t have it! How’s that for a radical idea? Did you hear about the Walmart customer who armed herself w/pepper spray to shoot at the competing customers? Oh, my God!! Seems she was there to pick up an XBOX. Authorities do not know if she actually got the XBOX ( either by purchase or shoplift ) because she made it out of there after wielding her weapon. Ludicrous. No one in my family has ever stood in a 3:00a.m. line on Black Friday to save $100 on some purchase. As for me, I’ll spend the $100 more and be dignified when I do it.

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment amwa

    Thanks so much for the reminders. It’s all stuff I know about, but tend to brush off (making things worse). I have a feeling it’s going to be really important for me this year as I am experiencing my post-Christmas depression before Christmas even gets going! What is up with that?!?!? Time to be pro-active. Anyway, thanks again. Going to print the tips and post them!

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment Your Name

    Love this Therese!So simple yet so true,I never tire of hearing all these small things that really help the OCD.
    LD

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment tutelstar

    This made me laugh so hard: “Any form of physical activity works, including walking, cycling, running or playing a team sport, such as soccer or basketball, and even typing really fast at your computer (just kidding).”

    LOL.

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