I’ve had death a lot on my mind not because I’m suicidal (yeah!) but because, as I said a few weeks ago, my running partner passed away. Today was his memorial service. I am so inspired by Ben—by his enthusiasm for running and good health, his loyalty and integrity, and his sense of humor. He didn’t let anything get him down. I envy that about him.
Anyway, motivated by his legacy, I decided to list ten things I would change if I knew I were dying (um, naturally of course). Here they are.

1. I would stress less about the small stuff.
2. I would categorize everything as small stuff.
3. I would worry less about people’s approval.
4. I would make more time for coffee and phone calls with friends.
5. I would visit my mom and my sisters more.
6. I would eat more dessert and not care as much about the widening waist line.
7. I would laugh more.
8. I would publish my journal online–every thought I have, no matter how stupid or insane. Oh wait, I already do that.
9. I would spend more time outdoors.
10. I would eat breakfast with my kids, lunch with Eric, and dinner with my family.
Would ten things would you change?