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Guardian Angel Ann’s Advice to Childless Women

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Since I can’t totally empathize with Suzanne—having two little blessings in my life that I scream at too often—I sent her comment to my guardian angel, Ann, because I know that not being able to conceive and bear children of her own was a big source of her depression.
As always, she blew me away not only by her immediate compassion and generosity of time and effort toward a “stranger” (although Suzanne is hardly a stranger to me), but also at the wisdom that lies within this woman-angel’s heart and mind.
She gives some practical advice about Halloween night, but, more importantly, how to fill that emptiness on an every day basis if you find yourself childless.

Dear Therese and Suzanne,
I’m writing you a joint e-mail because Therese, you are empathetic toward Suzanne and me, and I do hope I can bring some joy to Suzanne, in spite of all of the suffering you, Suzanne, have endured.
I know of many couples who have no children who have fulfilling lives. Not having our own children was a nightmare until we adopted Paul in 1970. Now, would you believe, our son asked me while vacationing in Maine with his wife and child, “Is Therese taking my place?” Sibling rivalry from a thirty-seven year old man! He hasn’t met Therese, and yet he knows how much we mean to each other.
I make this point to show you, that it is possible to reach out to younger people and experience the joy of nurturing and parenting. I find you can parent without children! Therese is an integral part of our life and I do think we give Therese and Eric strength during the rough times. [my side note: THEY DO!!!!!] Dick and I have been married 42 years, which is reassuring to Eric [that’s an understatement!], who also lives with a bipolar wife.
I am 65 and thought I wanted to have five children when I was in college studying early childhood education. I have always loved children, and have befriended many to fill the gaps. I understand how hard it must be to be in a gated community on Halloween.
Here are some suggestions:
* Call a friend with young children and offer to take them trick-or-treating so that the parents can be at home for the youngsters who come to their home. You could also offer to stay at the home of a friend in the community to give out candy, and enjoy that as well.
* Call your church and the near-by schools to see if they are going to have a Halloween parade, and ask if you could come to see the children. Tell them that you are in a retirement community, and would be more than happy to help, if help is needed.
* Perhaps you and your boyfriend could dress up and deliver candy to those who live in your complex. It would bring joy to those who miss having children come to their homes.
As far as how to fill the everyday void, be creative!
Call your church, and if you don’t have one, find one! Most churches have a nursery where babies are left with responsible adults and parents while the parents attend church. You can get a great baby fix each Sunday, or now and then.
Seven years ago, I noticed a very attractive pregnant couple at church with their children, two and four years old. I asked the mother-to-be if her mother was coming when she delivered her child. She said, “Are you kidding?” I said that I would love to be with her two small children when she and her husband had to head for the hospital. We spent Christmas Eve at our house so the children would feel comfortable with us. I was called early in January, and ever since we have remained very close to the dear family of five.
The children love to come here when their mom has appointments and we are surrogate grandparents. We are surrogate Godparents to their son, whose Godparent’s don’t give him special individual attention. Their dad looks to my husband for advice in his job, and their mom and I have “girls night out” when we can. This relationship began when I was just your age. The rewards have been endless.
There are many more young people in our lives than people our age. I frequently ask various children from our church if there is a good movie around. When there is something they want to see, I take them out for lunch and to the movie. It is good for me, and good for the parents.
If you haven’t seen “Because of Winn Dixie“, rent it. I ask children if they have seen the movie, and when they say “yes”, I ask them which character reminded them of me. Without taking a breath, they quickly say, “Gloria Dump”. It is a wonderful compliment. See the movie and you will know why I feel honored to be thought of as “Gloria Dump!”
One final thought. When we hurt, I believe we have to parent ourselves, to help ourselves through the rough and painful spots. My father committed suicide when I was seven. The loss is always there and magnified when I see fathers with their seven-year-old daughters. For a long time just seeing a father with any age child hurt tremendously. Being bipolar myself, I can understand better how the disease took him. I mourn for the fact he wasn’t helped, but medicine then is not what it is now. Still, as you feel an emptiness in your womb for never having children, I feel an emptiness in my heart for the years I missed with my father.
I would rather have a boyfriend at age 59, than a baby to raise! Perhaps you will marry and become the missing link to young couples and children in your lives.
Blessings from,
Therese’s Guardian Angel Ann



  • nwofor basil

    please my three good angels help me ask GOD for miracal

  • Karen

    Thanks so much for your article. It’s really really hard sometimes, to realize that my best thinking has left me childless and not in a relationship. Somehow, I didn’t expect that I would go through this nightmare, and your words were such a comfort to me.
    Karen

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    To all that are listening i want to thank the great spell caster Dr.Shekirry for a wonderful work he has done,before now i have been living in this word of tears and sorrows every day that pass this was as a result of my inability to get a child for my husband he had married me for about five years and since five years i could not get him a child,His family people was even the worst of it they advised my husband to get another wife so that he can get them a grandchild but for the fact that we love each other very much he promise that he will never leave me for another woman since we love each other very much although we were both happy but i still feel very bad for not getting pregnant for him,i have tried all the different hospital but no one could help me they where all saying the same thing that my womb have been tempered with due to surgical operation i had that affected my womb as a result of a serious accident i had long time ago when i was still 15 years old.
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  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
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    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr. ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
    without even conceiving a baby and i have done all the medical check up
    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
    without even conceiving a baby and i have done all the medical check up
    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr. ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
    without even conceiving a baby and i have done all the medical check up
    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr. ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
    without even conceiving a baby and i have done all the medical check up
    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr. ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
    without even conceiving a baby and i have done all the medical check up
    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

  • Nicolas Nayla

    Hello my is NICOLAS NAYLA i want to share my testimony on how i married for the pass 10yrs
    without even conceiving a baby and i have done all the medical check up
    and the doctors said am okay yet i was still unable to conceive until
    one faithful day i was on the internet doing some research and i saw a
    testimony share by someone on how a man call Dr ALEKA help her to get
    conceive a baby after casting a pregnancy spell for her and i have no option
    than to also contact this man on this same email which is supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com and to my greatest surprise after he has cast
    the spell for me and he told me to have sex with my husband and i did
    as he instructed me and to God be the glory at the end of the month i
    miss my period and i want for hospital for check up again and the doctor
    said am two weeks pregnant and i was so surprise and all this all came
    through with the help of Dr ALEKA once again contact him supernaturalsolutioncenter@gmail.com or you can also reach him on his website http://supernaturalsolutioncental.webs.com/
    for your help
    because he just save my marriage and i know many of you are out there
    with the same problem don’t hesitate to contact him now.

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    Dr.Brave help me to save my marriage today

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me,my name is William David,i live in Maryland/USA,and I’m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn’t love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again.So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com}So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn’t call me for the past seven {3}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster.So,i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to the bravespellcaster@gmail.com for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again. {bravespellcaster@gmail.com} Thanks..

  • http://www.military.com/spouse/military-deployment/reintegration/returning-to-home-life-after-deployment.html amazing testimony

    i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasi…,if
    you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to
    “bringing your ex back. So thanks to the bravespellcaster@gmail.com for
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    {bravespellcaster@gmail.com} Thanks..

  • http://www.military.com/spouse/military-deployment/reintegration/returning-to-home-life-after-deployment.html amazing testimony

    Dr.Brave help me to save my marriage today

    An amazing testimony on a spell caster who brought my wife back to me,my name is William David,i live in Maryland/USA,and I’m happily married to a lovely and caring wife,with two kids.A very big problem occurred in my family seven months ago,between me and my wife.so terrible that she took the case to court for a divorce.she said that she never wanted to stay with me again,and that she didn’t love me anymore.So she packed out of my house and made me and my children passed through severe pain. I tried all my possible means to get her back,after much begging,but all to no avail.and she confirmed it that she has made her decision,and she never wanted to see me again.So on one evening,as i was coming back from work,i met an old friend of mine who asked of my wife.So i explained every thing to her,so she told me that the only way i can get my wife back,is to visit a spell caster,because it has really worked for her too.So i never believed in spell,but i had no other choice,than to follow her advice. Then she gave me the email address of the spell caster whom she visited.{bravespellcaster@gmail.com}So the next morning,i sent a mail to the address she gave to me,and the spell caster assured me that i will get my wife back the next day.What an amazing statement!! I never believed,so he spoke with me,and told me everything that i need to do. Then the next morning, So surprisingly, my wife who didn’t call me for the past seven {3}months,gave me a call to inform me that she was coming back.So Amazing!! So that was how she came back that same day,with lots of love and joy,and she apologized for her mistake,and for the pain she caused me and my children. Then from that day,our relationship was now stronger than how it were before,by the help of a spell caster.So,i will advice you out there to kindly visit the same website http://bravespellcaster.yolasite.com,if you are in any condition like this,or you have any problem related to “bringing your ex back. So thanks to the bravespellcaster@gmail.com for bringing back my wife,and brought great joy to my family once again. {bravespellcaster@gmail.com} Thanks..

  • mi

    MRS DIANA

    My name is DIANA, am from England, what a wonderful and a straight
    forward spell caster that has brought back joy and happiness into my
    life after i saw a post on how he helped a lady called Cassandra,i
    decided to contact(dreka14demons@gmail.com) him for help when i told this God sent man DR EKA
    on how my lover left me for 2 years without calling nor testing me,When
    i shared this my sad experience with DR EKA he said everything
    would be okay within 2 days i was like am i sure what this man is saying
    is real,So i decided to give a try and i what even surprised me the
    most at first i was also thinking he was a scam i taught he was like
    other spell caster who come online to add pain to peoples pain not
    knowing there feelings but to make money,But this great man DR EKA
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    the one they love,Am just so happy,Even before the 3 days i just got a
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    he wants me back to his life i was so happy,He invited me for a dinner
    which i meant him there and we bought talked and he said he wants to
    prove that he would never leave me for any other lady he engaged me and
    also make me had access to all his account am so happy all thanks goes
    to this great man DR EKA (dreka14demons@gmail.com) a man who has brought back joy to my
    life,Please
    friends that needs help i would advice and swear that DR EKA is the
    right man and not those fake ones who are online to make
    money and not to help here is DR EKA “his private email: (dreka14demons@gmail.com)

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