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Ten Forms of Twisted Thinking

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Both David Burns (bestselling author of “Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy” and Abraham Low (founder of Recovery, Inc.) teach techniques to analyze negative thoughts (or identify distorted thinking) so to be able to disarm and defeat them.

Since Low’s language is a bit out-dated, I list below Burns’ “Ten Forms of Twisted Thinking,” (adapted from “Feeling Good“) categories of dangerous ruminations, that when identified and brought into your consciousness, lose their power over you.

1. All-or-nothing thinking (a.k.a. my brain and the Vatican’s): You look at things in absolute, black-and-white categories.

2. Overgeneralization (also a favorite): You view a negative event as a never-ending pattern of defeat.

3. Mental filter: You dwell on the negatives and ignore the positives.

4. Discounting the positives: You insist that your accomplishments or positive qualities don’t count (my college diploma was stroke of luck…really, it was).

5. Jumping to conclusions (loves alcoholic families): You conclude things are bad without any definite evidence. These include mind-reading (assuming that people are reacting negatively to you) and fortune-telling (predicting that things will turn out badly).

6. Magnification or minimization: You blow things way out of proportion or you shrink their importance.

7. Emotional reasoning: You reason from how you feel: “I feel like an idiot, so I must be one.”

8. “Should” statements (every other word for me): You criticize yourself or other people with “shoulds,” “shouldn’ts,” “musts,” “oughts,” and “have-tos.”

9. Labeling: Instead of saying, “I made a mistake,” you tell yourself, “I’m a jerk” or “I’m a loser.”

10. Blame: You blame yourself for something you weren’t entirely responsible for, or you blame other people and overlook ways that you contributed to a problem.



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Lisa

posted June 10, 2007 at 6:10 am


wow! this hits home for me. I do most of these wrong way of thinking. What is the solution??



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Mzmoman

posted November 29, 2007 at 11:18 am


That made a lot of things a lot clearer for me. Why do I always look at the glass as half empty? My husband is a 100% positive thinker, even when you think doom is near, he always see the good. I need to start listening to him and follow his lead.



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sanity

posted February 8, 2008 at 9:05 pm


I never really believed I was twisted, but I am. Thanks for the info.
I am on a real guilt trip know, and can’t get off!



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Heidi

posted March 12, 2008 at 11:28 am


What is the solution to this type of thinking?? It is difficult when one does keep mulling this thinking around and around in one’s mind.



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heather

posted December 9, 2011 at 5:01 am


omg. it’s my entire 9 year marriage on that list. you’ve just characterized my (soon-to-be) ex-husband perfectly



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