Be More

Be More

You Can’t Fix Crazy!

You Can't Fix Crazy!

We currently have more than 1 MILLION clients in our client base. More than 600,000 follow me on social media.

The #1 thing people write me about DAILY is how to get past negative people on social media. “HOW do I deal with mean people, haters, vomiting people who hurl insults and negativity on my business page?”

I’m a business trainer. I also work with several multi-billion dollar brands working on their social media pages & several ministries with more than 1000 staff.


My advice is this- if you wouldn’t let them come to your store and  vomit all over you and your customers, don’t tolerate it on your Facebook or Twitter page. Be wise!

Keep your brand healthy, don’t tolerate this. It’s a part of business, with 600,000 on my social media platforms it happens to us daily. But it’s not my focus. I block, ban and even report. Then I move on!

You can’t change crazy!

Choose to influence, release hope and not focus on that. Business 101- focus on where you’re going and don’t get distracted with the bumps in the road.

Whether you have a brick and mortar business, are a totally virtual business or are just starting out and have a combination of both- you will always have negative people to contend with. The bigger you get, the more it happens. In the online world, 1 out of every 100 people is just a bit ‘off’. Maybe the statistics are much higher.


It’s important to know when to encourage someone, when to block them and when to simply ignore. Discernment is the number one thing we need in this generation.  But please, in your desire to be discerning, loving and positive, don’t let someone dump their garbage truck into your living room (or showroom!)

BE more. Be the leader you are designed to be. Lead people in the right way. Love all, pray for all, but don’t tolerate this nonsense.

Serve your clients & don’t let an unstable person side track you.


With love,
Sandi Krakowski


  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment Cynthia


    The more I read your posts, the more I appreciate you. Great advice and words of wisdom. :)


  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment Your Name

    Thank You for using your courage and inner voice and allowing God to assist you to chase awAy fear through faith. His work in you created a pathway for the good of others and its universal and that’s how we prosper and spread His Faith, Hope & Love. #BEMORE.

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment Your Name

    Thank you Sandi….As always your words of wisdom hit home…..I know the importance of being an excellent person even when the person your dealing with isn’t so excellent…I wont compromise who I am and what I am about but it is important as you say ” not to let people dump garbage in my living room”

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment lisa m hayes

    I just wanna say ty for being such an inspiration I read ur fb posts daily and they give me inspiration and strength also aam startin my own business theu Primerica ty for helpin me believe in myself ur an awesome lady :)

  • David Newby

    Amen. Well said, Sandi. I get negative comments all day long. My response is typically none. The funny thing is that most of the negativity toward me comes from fellow believers. Really? So, as opposed to working with me to usher in the Kingdom, save souls, do God’s work, change the world, help the poor, etc. you would rather waste what little time we have on earth to point out something you don’t agree with or to attack me. The harvest is ready, but the laborers are few. Silence is golden in response to people who litter your social media timeline with garbage. Just let them wait and wait and wait (checking their social media updates frequently…for a response from you…but not getting one). That is the ultimate way to deal with it.

  • skrakowski

    Have good boundaries. Be healthy. If your relatives do this on your Facebook Business Page, block and ban them. If you wouldn’t allow any relative to come into your store and vomit on your or your customers, don’t allow it on FB or Twitter or anywhere else either. :)
    Some relatives need tighter boundaries than others.
    Much love,

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment Marlene

    Whar do you do if this person is your daughter and it happens 5-6 times a month? Short version is that her husband committed suicide almosr 4 years ago, keaving her with 2 children. She went off the deep end-drugs, almost no food, dating an abusive guy just like him, etc. She got off drugs, went back to college, dumped the guy and the several after him, and still had this vicious streak, mostly directed at her sister and me. I can’t take the horrible things she just shows up and spews about us, 99% off the wall untrue, accepting no blame and telling the world i did it all i love her and my grandchildren. There is no reasoning with her. What would you do?

  • Tania

    Perfect advise for life and business…thank you!

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  • Tresha Moreland

    Excellent advice! In our need to deliver customer service it is good to know we can have boundaries too!

  • Shaey writing for joy

    Very well said. Often our flesh can get offended by such verbal garbage. Remembering the ultimate source of the negativity is key. Satan will always tear down, but we are the conqueror! Thank the Lord for HIS truths and move on.

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