Becoming Great

Becoming Great

There’s a relationship with everything in life.

posted by Pervis Taylor, III

I have a client who is really a great a person with so much to give and offer the world. However, although he has achieved success the thing he truly desires always seems to escape him.  As a result he has become self destructive in relationships.  The thing that he fails to see is that everything works together if we truly want to have the abundant life.  We often think that one has nothing to do with the other, but that is false.  If you mistreat those who love you now how can you expect to treat the one whom you want to spend your life with?

Every relationship builds upon another.  Therefore, how we treat our friends is closely related to how we  will treat our significant other.  In order to experience greater in life, we must be greater.  Moreover, to get that new thing we deeply desire, we must ourselves be new and different.  My client is now understanding that everything matters.  There’s a relationship with everything in life.  We only grow in the context of relationships so we must truly value and appreciate them.  Our success and failures our related to our associations.  Let us not be cavalier with those things that matter most in life.embracing pic

Examine your relationships.  If you sense disorder do your part in mending and maintaining. If we want to have the things we want most in life, we must do good by what we have that’s present in our lives.

Remember we have the ability to not only change our world, but the world as a whole….BE GREAT!!

Until Next Time,

Pervis

Pervis Taylor, III is an Author, Life Coach, Speaker and Contributor. His books Pervis Principles Volume 1 and 2 are available exclusively on his website: www.pervistaylor.com/author. He is the creator of the inspiration/life coaching mobile app, I-Inspire, available for IPhones, Ipad and Ipod Touch via: www.pervistaylor.com/i-inspire/. He resides in New York City. Follow him on Twitter @pervistaylor or Facebook www.facebook.com/pervistaylor3.

Be Legendary

posted by Pervis Taylor, III

My tagline for everything I do is ‘Be Great’.  It originated from my mother telling me on a daily basis that I was destined for greatness.  For me greatness is the pinnacle of life. However, I want to add to that tagline and mindset  I recently was speaking to a group of young men and I was explaining the power of living by principle. I showed them a Michael Jordan commercial.  I wanted them to see if they could assess what was the principle he lived by.  At the end of the commercial the words: BE LEGENDARY were strewn across the screen.tk show

Fast forward I was speaking to a group of adults and a young man asked me what I thought his mindset should be towards his dream of being an etiquette coach.  I said simply, be legendary.  No matter what you do in life whether you are a janitor, teacher, basket weaver, blogger, home maker, actor etc, have the mindset that you are going to be the best to ever do it.  Take pride in whatever you do in life.  Excellence leaves a mark and creates history. You are a history maker!!

Don’t begrudge where you find yourself in life. If you are a student, be the student that changes the game.  If you are a husband be the husband that becomes the template or the standard by which all husbands need to abide by. Everything matters. Greatness resides in you. You have the makings that which legends are made of.

Remember we have the ability to not only change our world, but the world as a whole….BE GREAT!!

Until Next Time,

Pervis

Pervis Taylor, III is an Author, Life Coach, Speaker and Contributor. His books Pervis Principles Volume 1 and 2 are available exclusively on his website: www.pervistaylor.com/author. He is the creator of the inspiration/life coaching mobile app, I-Inspire, available for IPhones, Ipad and Ipod Touch via: www.pervistaylor.com/i-inspire/. He resides in New York City. Follow him on Twitter @pervistaylor or Facebook www.facebook.com/pervistaylor3.

Humanity

posted by Pervis Taylor, III

man-looking-in-mirrorOne of the biggest hurts in the human experience is when we get hurt by someone very close to us.  To add onto the pain, the person is oblivious to the infraction and/or is not interested in mending the hurt.  The gravity of the issue can render a person broken to the core.  How do we deal with the situations? Do we hate the person forever? Do we excuse the behavior? Do we allow ourselves to grow bitter?

The biggest breakthrough in your life will occur the moment you realize that a person is a human being before they whoever they are to you.  Being human is an interesting thing.  We are so complex yet simple at the same time. We do things which to us make perfect sense, but can be harmful or offensive to others. While I know this won’t change everything it does help you embrace forgiveness faster.  Think about a time you’ve been misunderstood, and wanted to be forgiven.

Now try to place to take that feeling and perspective and apply it to the person who has hurt you.  Again, I’m not saying this is going to be easy, but it’s a powerful step forward for you.  We if anything, are perfectly human.  We are flawed, broken and yet loveable at the same time.  What a wonder God has made in us.

Remember we have the ability to not only change our world, but the world as a whole….BE GREAT!!

Until Next Time,

Pervis

Pervis Taylor, III is an Author, Life Coach, Speaker and Contributor. His books Pervis Principles Volume 1 and 2 are available exclusively on his website: www.pervistaylor.com/author. He is the creator of the inspiration/life coaching mobile app, I-Inspire, available for IPhones, Ipad and Ipod Touch via: www.pervistaylor.com/i-inspire/. He resides in New York City. Follow him on Twitter @pervistaylor or Facebook www.facebook.com/pervistaylor3.

 

Relax

posted by Pervis Taylor, III

One of the first assignments I give to my clients, no matter what their plight may be is for them to go celebrate themselves and relax and be selfish for a moment in a healthy way.  I do realize that sometimes a lot of the stress we encounter in life we bring upon ourselves because we don’t know how to relax and put the stress or demands on the shelf for a while. dream pic

So to help you with this problem, I’m assigning for the next 3 weeks that all readers of this blog, once a week for at least 2 hours, go have fun or relax, read a book, watch some good mindless tv or hang with friends and talk about silly stuff.  It’s imperative that we incorporate relaxation into our system of living.  Remember, at the end of the day it’s not that serious.  We can turn on the news and see people all over the world who would kill to be in our shoes.  While I’m not minimizing each of your experiences, I am causing you to shift your perspective a bit.

Remember we have the ability to not only change our world, but the world as a whole….BE GREAT!!

Until Next Time,

Pervis

Pervis Taylor, III is an Author, Life Coach, Speaker and Contributor. His books Pervis Principles Volume 1 and 2 are available exclusively on his website: www.pervistaylor.com/author. He is the creator of the inspiration/life coaching mobile app, I-Inspire, available for IPhones, Ipad and Ipod Touch via: www.pervistaylor.com/i-inspire/. He resides in New York City. Follow him on Twitter @pervistaylor or Facebook www.facebook.com/pervistaylor3.

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