Life demands balance – and you may look or feel awkward, especially when you’re trying to start over and figure out what you want your life to become. Regardless, that’s the way life works. Suppose your job required you to carry eighty pounds with your right hand and only thirty with your left. If you carry that load long enough, your right shoulder would naturally bend downward and your left would go up. That’s how you’d maintain stability. You’d be balanced, but it wouldn’t be good for your health.