Wildebeests and zebras look as different as chalk and cheese. One is bulky; the other is sleek. And yet, they have found the secret of co-existing peacefully. Without knowing of the word, they have developed symbiosis - a cooperative, mutually beneficial relationship.

I think of my childhood friends with whom I am still in touch, and marvel at the empathy, solidarity and synergy amongst us... because we make them happen. Dependable Emma who cut her hair short when I had alopecia (hair loss); athletic Simone who took off her loafers because my stilettos hurt me; fashion-plate Helga who left the party early with me because I was tired; Earth-mother Susan who missed a boat-trip to visit me in the hospital; world-famous artiste Stella who cleaned my dirty laundry when my machine broke. I reciprocate as needed.

We have lived, loved, laughed and cried together, and prayed with and for one another.

Our friendship has withstood the test of time. Acquaintances come and go, but friends with whom you give-and-take, without counting the cost, remain forever. When you are blessed with a true friend, treasure her.

- Tanja Cilia