There are a couple of things I remember about a fund-raising event I attended some years back. First, I remember the dessert. Following the program about five hundred of us were greeted by two chef stations sautéing fresh fruit and topping the warm bowls of . Second, I remember . Irshad was the speaker that evening and she was just as fabulous as the food. That’s a strong statement coming from me— I love a great meal. I was doing the equivalent of the in those days. I was working as a fund-raiser for a Jewish organization. Part of my networking strategy was to attend events where I could meet Jewish philanthropists. I’m sure I met a few that night.  Even better, was having the opportunity to hear Irshad Manji speak. Irshad, is a female Muslim activist who advocates for reform and pluralism within Islam.  She’s the director of the and best-selling author of . It’s an eye-opening book. Read next feature >