You know exactly what you’re looking for in a mate. You want them to be smart, witty, successful and caring. The person you fall in love with will be amazing at their job, but not obsessed by work. They will be funny, but never sarcastic. They will be attractive, but not obsessed by their looks. In other words, they will be perfect. Does this person exist? Probably not. That’s why you should let go of what you “think” the perfect person for you will look like.