Secret Number Three: Your lifetime vows need to cover more than your sex organs. Quite frankly this is probably the area that needs the most help in the most relationships. Her unfaithfulness may never land her in bed with someone else but constant comparisons of your spouse to someone else’s is a form of distancing and even betrayal. All that you know about your spouse will never measure up to the façade you see in the other person. And every comparison sets you up to attach emotionally or physically to someone else, even though that was the last thing you thought would happen. Stop comparing and start faithfully connecting.
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