Arterturn continues: What works better than trying to change or cure or criticize your partner is to accept them and return to focusing on the things you appreciated about your spouse when you were so attracted in the dating phase. Not only accept, but accommodate their uniqueness and adapt your behavior to make life better for both of you. (Of course this does not include cases of abuse and betrayal.) If your spouse continues to try to change you, talk about the things you see that you need to work on. Connect with your spouse at the deepest level possible to see if changing you is a result of some deep wound from the past. Help them see and deal with that wound with great compassion so the driving force of their discontent is resolved.
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