Search optimization is useless when what we are looking for doesn’t exist. All notions that a soul mate is someone who will complete us, or will entertain us, or give us status in the world, will never materialize fully. We must have a realistic definition of a soul mate. A soul mate won’t always be a jerk, or a clod, however, the idea of a soul mate needs optimizing. Every day.
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