Becoming Too Selfless. Being too selfless is like being selfish, but in reverse. Some people lose themselves in trying to care for and love other people. While considering other people is vital, losing yourself, your dignity and your ability to draw boundaries can be harmful. Relationships always have a give and a get to them – make sure you aren’t just giving all the time. One or two things usually happens to the selfless person: the other person either ends up become less interested or starts to use you like a box of Klennex. Healthy people don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t acknowledge his or her needs. A healthy dating relationship will encourage you to become your own person and focus on your needs as well as the other person’s…and be happy together.
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