Trying to Fix People. Eastham continues: Missionary dating, taming the bad boy, making the bad girl good. Whatever you want to call it, people often go into relationships expecting to change the other person. It’s more important to change and improve things about yourself and let that be naturally contagious. While opposites do attract, they can also destruct. Make sure you’re dating someone because you enjoy who that person is, not because you think you can shape them into something you rather have. People aren’t Play-Doh.
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