10 Questions to Ask Before You Say “I Do”
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4. Will they be a spectacular parent? You’re not just choosing your future husband or wife; you’re choosing your kids’ future dad or mom. It’s impossible for you to imagine how much you’ll love your children; they will pull emotions out of you that you didn’t even know you had. And on the day you bring them home, you’ll be so glad you picked someone who will be a fantastic parent, or you’ll grieve that they have to put up with someone who is neglectful or, even worse, abusive. “If you plan on having kids, your marriage isn’t just about you,” says Gary Thomas, author of The Sacred Search Couples Conversation Guide. “Your future spouse’s suitability as a parent is a major deal to consider.”