I believe that all men daily ask themselves this same question in one form or another—when they are buying a new car, moving into a certain neighborhood, joining a particular country club, or choosing those with whom they will socialize.  

What we are really asking ourselves is, What do people think of me as a man? Do I measure up in their eyes as they see the choices I am making? For in today’s world, life for us as men is all about what we do and how successful we are at what we do.