My Parents' Seder

Political idealogues can interpret the seder however they want, but at an early age I learned what the seder is really about.

In the emotional calendar of the Jewish year, Passover has become the time of family memory. It is the most observed of all Jewish festivals. Even innumerable nonbelievers come together for the seder to affirm their links with their ancestors and with other Jews, past and present.

Passover on Beliefnet
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  • Susan Schnur on a new Passover ritual.
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    PLUS: Find more features, music, and the interactive seder plate in Beliefnet's Passover section.

  • I have heard and read a thousand times a description of the same memories. In the days before Passover, Mother or Grandmother's house was in holy turmoil, as the plates and silverware that had been used all year were being moved out and the special china for Passover was moved in. The turmoil included baking cakes without flour, making gefilte fish and matzah balls.

    There are other variations of these memories, depending on one's land of origin: North African Jews, for instance, do not make matzah balls, and Yemenite Jews make a point of dressing for the seder in traveling clothes to suggest that, like our biblical ancestors, they are ready to take off instantly to heed a divine call to the Holy Land. So for many, Passover has become a kind of ethnic memory, a warm feeling about the folkways of our ancestors.

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