Can My Jewish Relatives Be Godparents to My Catholic Baby?

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BY: Laura Sheahen

 

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I am a Roman Catholic and my husband is Jewish. We have a 6-month-old who we would like to be baptized. We would like the godparents to be my husband's sister and her husband, who are both Jewish.

The churches near me will not allow this. My husband's family is wonderful and I would not hesitate to entrust my daughter to their care. I am sure they would support her faith as a Catholic. Is there any sort of permission I could get? I feel the church is condescending.


I'm afraid you're out of luck. As you've probably learned from the churches near you, the Catholic Church requires two godparents: one must be Catholic, and the other must be either Catholic or a baptized non-Catholic Christian (whose formal title is "Christian witness").

It may seem restrictive, but keep in mind that the role of godparents (read more) is not simply to support a Catholic child's faith, but to be a Christian role model. One question posed to the parents during the baptismal ceremony is: "It will be your duty to bring [your child] up to keep God's commandments as Christ taught us, by loving God and our neighbor. Do you clearly understand what you are undertaking?" The godparents will be asked to affirm that they support the parents in doing this. As wonderful and loving as your husband's family may be, they might not feel comfortable taking on this role even if some loophole could be found.

Your wish to include your sister-in-law and her husband in your child's spiritual life is admirable. One way to do this might be to ask them to say a blessing for your baby at a private gathering in your home.

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