Big Challenges of 'Big Love'

HBO's series about polygamists gets a lot wrong--but its superb storytelling wrestles with love and its darker side.

BY: Linda Hoffman Kimball


As a card-carrying Mormon, do I want to become a regular watcher of HBO’s new series "Big Love," which focuses on a polygamous family? As with many questions I have related to Church matters, the answer is complicated.

 

To be clear from the outset, "Big Love"--which premieres Sunday after "The Sopranos"--is not about Mormons. Rather, it is about members of a splinter group that still practices polygamy while retaining aspects of Mormon practices and culture. HBO’s press release includes this prominent disclaimer, which also airs at the end of the show's first episode:  "According to a joint report issued by the Utah and Arizona Attorney General’s Offices, July 2005, 'approximately 20,000 to 40,000 or more people currently practice polygamy in the United States.’ The Mormon Church officially banned the practice of polygamy in 1890."

 

Nevertheless, "Big Love" introduces us to hardworking family man Bill Henrickson (played appealingly by Bill Paxton) and his life in suburban Salt Lake City. He balances the needs of his three wives (Barb, played by Jeanne Tripplehorn; Nicki, by Chloe Sevigny; and Margene, by Ginnefer Goodwin), their seven children, three new houses, and the opening of Bill's newest home improvement store. Disturbing news arrives about Bill’s father, and Bill is forced to reconnect with his parents, also polygamists, who live on a fundamentalist compound in rural Utah. Bill soon finds himself in a hostile, potentially deadly dispute with one of his fathers-in-law, the cult’s patriarch, Roman (Harry Dean Stanton).

 

Besides the obvious polygamy aspect, there are several clues that this is really not about Mormons. Fashion is a tip-off, from Margene’s (Wife #3) short skirts and spaghetti-strap dresses to Nicki’s (Wife #2) long skirts and braided hair. Nicki looks like someone not far removed from the fictional “Juniper Creek” polygamist cult compound--probably based on the real polygamist enclave, Colorado City, Ariz.--where she (and husband Bill) grew up. Tripplehorn's Barb (Wife #1) is more on the mark: Many Salt Lake City Mormon women go for her sort of “modest but modern” look these days. She can and does “pass” as Mormon.

 

The terminology that the characters toss around provides tip-offs that the actors themselves are not Latter-day Saint insiders. Barb refers to the phenomenon of Family Home Evening, a common Mormon happening, but she accents the second word, “home,” rather than giving a slight oomph to "evening," as in real Mormonspeak. Perhaps more tellingly, the creepy cult leader Roman, played by Harry Dean Stanton with amazing menace, mispronounces Palmyra, the name of the upstate New York town where Joseph Smith’s first vision took place--and therefore a word with which every Mormon or splinter-group member would be very familiar. So the writers have it correct; maybe the cast needs just a little more fine-tuning from the accent coach.

 

For the most part, though, the show nails the Mormon rubric. Henrickson household conversations abound with common Mormon phrases such as “for time and all eternity” or “CTR” (the acronym used to remind Latter-day Saint youth to “Choose the Right”), and exclamations like “Oh my heck” and “Dumbhead” are about as strong as the language gets. Tina Majorino’s (Napolean Dynomite) character--a perky mainstream Mormon friend of the oldest Henrickson daughter--rattles off mentions of “Relief Society" and "Young Women’s" knowing that everyone in her life--if not her non-Mormon TV viewers--will catch her references to these common Mormon groups.

 

Mormons can probably laugh louder that most viewers at Bill wolfing down green jello after a fast, seeing Nicki’s mother’s Lladro collection, or hearing that teenage Benji’s high school baseball team is the Cumorah Cougars. (Cumorah is the place where Joseph Smith found the Book of Mormon.) These are great inside jokes that show real homework.

 

As "Big Love" portrays, splinter groups like those the characters belong to often share some nomenclature, some history, and some theology with the Mormon Church. Much of the counsel the characters offer concerning how to discern revelation, how to seek guidance, and even how to build unity sound like the real deal to me. Shots of the Salt Lake Temple spires appear in nearly every driving scene. A replica of the Salt Lake Temple appears on the desk of the cult patriarch and “Prophet.” That gives me the willies.

Continued on page 2: 'Big Love' helps me understand my children's ancestors. »

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