An individual’s thought life influences how they respond to the challenges of life, writes Julie Ziglar Norman, author of Growing Up Ziglar:  A Daughter’s Broken Journey from Heartache to Hope, and founder of the Ziglar Women Conference.  She’s the daughter of the famed motivational speaker Zig Ziglar. Secrets, she says, create the equivalent of a war zone in the thought life of those who hide their past because of shame, regret and fear of judgment.